hey i am very new to this site...so ya...i have a question???...me and my gf have been gettin a little more intimate and i asked her a few days ago if her hymen was broke yet...because i wanted to start takin it a little farther...and she said that it for sure wasnt...so now i am afraid to finger her...wat should i do??? thanks
Hi 123, welcome to A2A.
If she uses tampons she has almost certainly broken it already, but she may not know that, and she may think it only breaks on sex. She may have taken your question to mean "have you had sex with anyone yet?".
I think you should ask her if she'd be comfortable if you take it a little further.
she said she hasnt masterbated and she doesnt use tampons...and she knows that it doesnt break only during sex...and i will ask her if she is comfortable but im pretty sure she is...thanks alot Ineligible
In some cultures an intact hymen at marriage used to be very important, but with the use of tampons this is probably now pretty rare. The hymen can break other ways, too.