Im 17 years old and was at my friends house.He is an only child and i am there a lot. i play sports and recently i hurt my back playing lacrosse.my friends dad is a physical therapest and i was having trouble sleeping because it hurt. he was awake and offerd to check it out. it was fine b/c he had done it before, i lay on my stomach and he lifted my shirt off. he was rubing my back and it felt good, i only got worried when he pulled my shirt off and started saying how well i have grown into a man. i wasnt sure what to say and then he started to put his hands inside of my boxers i got up but he instantly started to rub me...down there. i got hard quick and it felt good i wanted him to stop but i didnt make him b/c it felt good. i sat down and let him pull my boxers off he sucked me and i liked it but also hated it. i want sure what to do i felt like i couldnt do any thing b/c hes my friends dad. i need to know if 1: i sould say something 2: is it wrong to want to be sucked again.
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Night at my friends house
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1. Yes, you should definitely say something. What he did was a crime. He violated you. You trusted him as an adult and as a physical therapist and he violated both of those trusts. I understand the difficulty of the situation, given the fact that he is your friend's dad, but you can't let this go. Tell someone.
2. No it's not wrong that it felt good. It's not wrong if you had an orgasm. It's not wrong if you now feel like you would like another blowjob. None of that changes the fact that he is completely responsible for what happened.
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Do we have a troll on our hands?
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I think it's best to assume not until we have reason to believe its so.
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Im no expert, but:1. Tell SOMEONE, your friend, your parents, someone you can trust... Just tell someone about it.2. Well, you can want to be sucked again... But sucked by him, i would watch out, you dont know if he is trust worthy.
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I agree with your attitude, damien.
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being that you're 17, depending on the age of consent of where you are, this can be statutory rape.If anything, you can talk to a school councelor
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where i live mate ur considered an adult its ur decision. my the sounds of it and bein that ur 17 and in a house that other people were in at the time, if u really wanted him to stop u wud hav made him stop by pushin him off or shoutin for someone. if u enjoyed it fair enough but dont go ruinin someone elses life cos u felt guilty after it happened
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You, my friend, are clueless.
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i'm with puntie. if you didn't try to stop it you can't justify ratting him out. it would almost be like you using him! and you might want to ask for it from him again? you definitely shouldn't blab! like puntie said, this stuff ruins the perp's life. not that I'm siding with him. if he tries it again and you try to stop it, and he keeps doing it, THEN you bust him. But where you are now, I don't think it's right to bust him, because you gave in. From my view you both are in it together. Course, I don't know about trauma and weird paralysis; I don't know what stopped you in your tracks, but like puntie said, if you really wanted to stop it I think you would have.
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And the most accurate thing you said in your whole post is "I don't know what stopped you in your tracks". Unless you've been there, you can't know. Not yelling "stop" or kicking or running off is not the same thing as giving assent to what's happening to you. Particularly if you're with someone you trust who is abusing their position. I think you and punt are both speaking from ignorance. And really that's a good thing cause it means that kind of thing has never happened to you.Bottom line is the man is a perpetrator and what he did was wrong. The fact that the op didn't stop it, and even had an orgasm, doesn't make it acceptable.