IM IN DIRE NEED OF HELP!!! PLZ

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I REALLY NEED HELP PLEASE I NEED THIS WORKED OUT AND ASAP BEFORE ITS TOOO LATE....ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND WERE HAVING SEX AND SHE SAID SHE WANTED TO TRY WITHOUT A CONDOM, SO ME BEING STUPID I SAID FINE... I DIDINT CUM IN HER, ANYTIME I GOT CLOSE I WOULD STOP OR PULL OUT, WHAT IM AFRIAD OF THO IS THAT WE DID THAT FOR A GOOD HOUR OR 2, IM SCARED THAT MY PRECUM MIGHT OF GOTTEN TO HER, PLEASE SOMEONE HELP I NEED U TO TELL ME WHAT THE POSSIBILITYS OF HER GETTING PREGNANT MIGHT BE...I WAS STUPID IN MAKING THE DECISION TO EVEN HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM ON IN THE FIRST PLACE....I WASINT ENTIRELY STUPID, I KNOW THAT SPEMICIDE KILLS SPERM AND I HAPPENED TO USE A SPERMICIDE CONDOM EARLIER THAT DAY... HOW LONG DOES SPERMICIDE STAY IN THE GIRL FOR? AND ALSO AFTER I TOLD HER THAT I COULDINT KEEP GOING CAUSE I DIDINT WANT HER TO GET PREGNANT, I INSISTED ON USING ANOTHER SPERMICIDE CONDOM.WOULD THE TWO SPERMICIDE CONDOMS I USED KILL THE PRECUM SPERM? OR DO I REALLY NEEDA GET HER TO A CLINIC FOR THE DAY AFTER PILL? THIS HAPPENED SATURDAY NIGHT....PLEASE IM REALLY FREAKED OUT ABOUT THIS AND I REALLY NEED EVERYONES INPUT ON THIS... SO IM SORRY IF IVE EVER BEEN A DICK, BUT PLEASE. I BEG OF ALL OF U, HELLPPPP!!!!!

First, turn the fucking caps off, dont yell at us because you screwed up, second all that youv seen here and read here and known what causes pregnancy and you did it anyways?and lastly, spermacide condoms are not going ot save your ass just because you used one earlier in the day. There is a small amount of spermacide on those il bastards anyways. spermacide is only a possible aid in preventing pregnacy if its used in bulk, not a squirt in a rubber that you had on 2 hours prior to pumping her this time.Id guess your odds are as good (or shitty) as anyone elses who had sex with no rubber but didnt bust a nut in her to finish it off.whats the standard odds for conception with no rubber and using hte pull out method? thats what your odds are as well.

i used a spermicide condom after we had sex as well, and i used it maybe no more then 3 minutes after. should i take her to a clinic?and i apologize for caps, i didint notice it was on, im just freaked rite now,

If this happened Saturday the morning after pill would be useless. I think that are only good up to 48 hours after sex, but more efficient if taken 24 hours after.If you are that worried, go to a clinic and have a pregnancy test done, though still might be too early to detect anything.

i guess in your sig id be referred to as a dork huh, ....idk what too doo, shes supposed to get her period sometime in the middle of the month, usually between 10-20 . doesint that mean that i have like 16 days left until i know for shure :'( this is going to be terrible if she does turn out pregnant? any ideas on what i should do!? and also i thought the day after pill could be taken within the week of the pussy being exposed to cum. doesint it bring down your period, which in turn should bring down her egg and like wash it out.

there is so little spermacie in those rubbers that I wouldnt count on it.Also its inside the condom for the most part that the spermacide is placed, its concentrated into the area where its going to be most effective at killing sperm when the nut gets busted, its not to administer a dose to her body to keep you from knocking her up.It seems to me that hte morning after pill is a 72 hour pill not 48, but never having used one I really have no idea.All you can do at this point is kick back and wait to see if shes knocked up or not, what the hell else is there to do?

I could be wrong Chance, I was just always told it was only good up to 48 hours, but it would be 72 like you said. Either way it’s about pointless at this time.As for what you should do... when possible get a pregnancy test done. You could go to the clinic and ask them about the morning after pill (Chance and I could be both wrong). Be proactive and hell even CALL the clinic and ask about the morning after pill. There is plenty you can do.

.... ok well im going to call, but i dont know the number, i would call 411 but idk what to say, free health clinic? or what? do i ask for a teen sex hotline, damn this shyt is fucking stressfulll!!!!

YUp can be pressful, that's why you use a condom.You can ask the directory for free health clinic, I ams ure they'll figure it out.

i feel like crying but i cant, in fact i cant remember the last time i cryed, i dont want this to be the end of my future, i have such high goals for myself and dreams, i know that having a child, these dreams will be put on hold for a long time. not to mention i will be in sooooo mucccchhhhh shit if she is pregnant.

theres no use freaking out about it now. im not really sure what the chances are of her getting pregnant, but dont get incredibly worked up about it unless she is late for her period. then i suggest getting her tested. i dont know anything about the morning after pill or any other drug to prevent the pregnancy at this point, so dont ask me about any of that. But yeah, I hope you get this worked out.

like i said im going from my memory and as my fiance can attest to my memory isnt exactly the best. Never had any experience using it just what Iv seen or atleast what I remeber seeing on this site and tv.
Shit for all I know its a week later you ccan take it and have it be effective ? If I thought I needed it, Id be making some calls about it to someone who does know.

you know what, ive calmed down about this, and the reason,because im letting my gods take over this situation.i know they wont allow her to get pregnant because there protecting me and my future... and i just pray that they come threw for me a few more times.

You could always try going to a planned parenthood and getting any type of information you need.I looked it up and there are locations in...Counties Served in California:Alpine, Amador, Calaveras, El Dorado, Fresno, Inyo, Kern, Kings, Madera, Mariposa, Merced, Mono, Monterey, Nevada, Placer, Sacramento, Sierra, San Benito, San Joaquin, Santa Clara, Santa Cruz, Stanislaus, Sutter, Tulare, Tuolumne, Yolo, and Yuba counties.http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/files/portal/aboutus/affiliates-ca.xmlGood luck with everything.. hope all is well.. and next time please be a little more careful! You also might want to consider her going on the pill.

The probability that she's pregnant is not zero, and you shouldn't do that again; but the probability is fairly low, so the chances are good that you'll escape this time.

thanks, that really helps to hear someone say something in good favor towards me (in numbers at least.) we already agreed shes going to get on the pill, but we just never had a ride to the clinic, now for shure im getting her on it, i dont want another one of these situations to arrise.the only thing that bugs me, is what if she forgets to take it? will she get pregnant for missing one day?

Just cause she goes on the pill, it doesn't mean that you start having unprotected sex. It is still the safest option to double up with contraception (and no, I don't mean using 2 condoms at once). At a young age you really have no pressure or dire need to have unprotected sex, you will have plenty of time for that later in life when you are in a relationship that doesn't involve a thread like this everytime you fuck up in bed. And if she misses a day she will not get pregnant. Sperm cannot miraculously appear in her body, it would require you (or someone else that she isn't telling you about) to put it inside her. Lets hope that for a while no sperm will be going any closer to her womb than the tonsils tho.

The key is to stop repeating the same mistakes. fuck up once its ok (pending results of said fuck up) but to reeapt the same fuck up again and again is unforgivabe.I cant attet to odds of anything, I ony know that your odds of her being knocked up are as good as anyone elses that didnt use a rubber and is worried about precum.High? I doubt it but I dont know, I used to always use a ruber not beause i was worried about pregnacy (most of htem were on one form or another of birth control) but because of the threat of std's. I had one scare early on in my whoring days, I never repeated it. If your going to have sex, you have to take precautions and acti responsably. Odds ar your fine, dont shit too much till she has or doesnt have her period, then you can shit with relief or have it run down bothlegs filling your shoes from fear. just dont make the same mistakes twice.for the reord though, my second child was concieved whie my ex was on birth control pills and my fiances thrid was the same way. the pill is not a gurantee of no pregnacy, just a step towards limiting the possibiity.I dont know odds of beocming pregnant while on the pill, but I do know its possible.

Contraceptive method---------------------------- EffectivenessVasectomty ------------------------------------------- Almost 100 per centFemale sterilisation ------------------------------------ Almost 100 per centCombined pill ------------------------------------------- Almost 100 per centProgestogen only pill ---------------------------------- Around 97 per centMale condom -------------------------------------------- 85 to 98 per centFemale condom ----------------------------------------- 85 to 98 per centDiaphragm or cap with spermicide-------------------- 85 to 96 per centContraceptive injection --------------------------------- Almost 100 per centIUD --------------------------------------------------------- 98 to 99 per centIUS - Plastic coil impregnated with progestogen ----- Almost 100 per cent

there ya go, thats the shit I have no clue about. all I know is I got my nuts cut back in October and have very lovely sex with my fiance and never worry about any results f having said sex.
hadto wait a bit for the sperm to empty out and alot of wacking off an using rubbers to get it gone and it took a few tests to confirm sperm free, but but I now feel free to fill her with goo every time I get the oppertunity to do so.
Your chart doesnt list the "pull out" method, any ideas on what its success rate is?