well me and my girlfriend are ready to have sex tomorow but im afraid of her hurting because she tells me that she does not finger herself or does anything sexual to herself? what should i do to get her comfortable with her vagina and such?
Question about vaginas
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So you are ready for sex? You in a relationship? You know the feelings involved? You know that she is 90% not ready if she does not even finger herself or anything sexual to herself.
You see it is not so much as you just stick it and go and you have a condom on. There is a lot to consider on this. How long you have been dating, and how seriously ready you are. I take it from how you posted this that you are quite young and have not much experience in life/relationships. I think you need to sit and talk to this girl.. Let her explore herself before you start probing her with your penis.
Are you ready for pregnancy (I doubt she is on BC), are you ready for anything that can happen.
I am going to say, do not. For she needs to be comfortable with herself or the sex is going to be terrible. Why would you just have sex tomorrow if you are not mature about what is going to happen. Why have sex when you know so little about the female anatomy. Have you two kissed....give he some more info and I can give you advice of the route to take.
well, im 16 and she's 16 and we've been dating for a year now, all we've done is made out and she has given me head i dont know how many times, but she told me that she wanted to have sex. We have a special bond and i think we are ready to connect on a more physical level right about now.
Have you ever performed oral sex on her? I would do the oral sex thing for awhile....and you should be doing it to her more than she does to you...a good man always pleases his woman for nothing in return. 16...hmmmm well what I am to say is not to deter you just some brain candyWhat are you two going to do if she gets pregnant? Are you sure this relationship is ready for sex? Do you know what sex entails? on the vagina issue...You have to get her to start to please herself, so she can tell you what she likes. You also need her to do that so she is relaxed or it is going to hurt her a lot. SO I say stick with foreplay and get her relaxed with finering herself and touching herself. Sex will come if you two love each other and care. It will also be better if you two are adult about it and work on her building her confidence on touching herself. If ya need anything else PM I am glad to help.
haha, to be honest, i don't know what i'll do if she gets pregnant..I respect her enough to just tell her we shouldn't have sex, but she is the one who wants to and she's done alot for me and i just want to do something for her in return and have sex with her. - on the pm, yeah ill hit you up on that right about..now
Having sex won't be doing a whole lot for her, especially if its her first time and she has never been fingered or anything. It is just gonna hurt her a lot.