Ur 1st time......

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just trying 2 get sum indication of the norm on this, sooooo my question is:when u lost ur virginity1: how old were u?2: how long had u been seeing the person it was with b4 having sex with them?3: was it a good experience? bad? or just plain ugly?4: anything else u wanna share....(by the way, im new, so b kind, i dont no if this is already a post thing sumwhere or if its really posted in the right place.)

I was 18 and only met her for about 4 hours. Lasted about 20 min. but not intense. It felt too natural. I was expecting some awesome feeling that I never got from masterbating. It all got better after that.

Wow... A true Canadian Mountie!

In reply to:My first time was out of this world. It was early spring and there was still a light chill in the air and we had hiked to this huge abandon house in the country, the sky was dark with storm clouds, it was pouring down rain with a flash of lightning every minute or two, & thunder rattling the house. I knew she had been with her previous boyfriend and as the moment drew closer I decided to tell her that this was going to be my first time, I am so glad I did. She took the lead, and got the enjoyment of being the one to educate me. As the storm raged outside, she led me to an old sofa laid me down on it, straddled me and guided me into manhood. I surrendered myself to her complete control, her gentle caresses and kisses. It was unbelievable and probably one of the single best times of my life. A time that I still think about often and a time that I will never forget....... My response when the same question was asked some time ago.

When it happens, then I shall know.

1 - 17
2 - 10 days
3 - It was fun!
4 - That was over a year ago and I'm still with her.

1 - 162 - Knew for a while. She was my friend's sister. But we never dated.3 - scared, guilty, but excited. obviously felt gooood.4 - Started on a lawn chair. ended in someone's car.

1. 162. 5 months-ish3. It was very sore for her, I just stopped after a while because it was hurting her too much4. We tried it a couple more times, they improved a bit, I got her to come with oral sex but penetration was always an issue. Broke up not long after.

1. 212. 4 years3. It was ok. It hurted a bit, but nowhere near as much as I had anticipated

im with walken on this one, so i shell qoute him: "When it happens, then I shall know." lolim still kept sum of my romantic idealism, and, am doin the whole 'waitin for the "right guy" ' thing. this may or may not b a stupid idea, i just really hate regretting stuff and have been advised against the "getting it over and done with" approchthanx guys, by the way, good 2 get a perspective on this that dosnt make me come 2 the conclusion of "omg, im the oldest virgin in the universe" hehe, thanx ppl, keep replying if u havent already!

In reply to: "omg, im the oldest virgin in the universe" I am afraid I have beaten you to that, at least on these boards.I mean you finally get to that point where you have waited this long, that it makes no sense to just go do it.

so true, if i make a tiny stand about anything, i really just cant ever go back on my word 2 myself...i dont no why. if i say 2 myself, no, ill neva do that....i just cant go back on it. and i do take moral stands on alots things.....and yes, u win that title

well it is important you follow what you believe is right b/c only you can tell yourself that.

In reply to: I mean you finally get to that point where you have waited this long, that it makes no sense to just go do it. I agree. I mean I'd be happy to lsoe it tonight, or tommorow, or next year. I wouldnt say I'm waiting for the right person as such, more I'm waiting for a time that doesnt cause me undue duress as with my past experiences.

thank you for saying that, I was not sure how to put it...But yup

Splendid stuff.

I'm curious what you two think of those that glorify virginity, like its something to be proud of, somehow superior to having had sex. What dya think of that?

Well IMO I do see it as superior. It is a form of self control that not everyone has. So I do see it as superior, plus if someone still thinks sex means something but has done it, and you are a virgin, just would not feel right...I mean you are just another person for the to do it with, nothing new...I mean they have had a guy inside them before, so for me no matter how we felt about each other, that would always bug me..

Oh aye I would prefer lose my virginity to a virgin, though as I get older the chance of that decreases.My opinion of those that glorify being a virgin though is that they are rather silly. I see it as nothing to be proud of, but I no longer feel any shame. Bad sexual experiences killed my shame.

that is what keeps me thinking superior...People do all this, but at what cost? I mean I only see sex complicating things and causing problems, when it is with someone you supposedly love...

I think there is a difference between "being proud" and glorifying.I think if someone is a virgin, they should be proud of that. It's not easy and I really think they've accomplished something (unless, of course, they're like 11 or something).But glorifying...that's uncalled for. That's more like putting themselves above somebody else. No one can do that.