Pregnancy Scare

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Ok here we go. I need thoughts on this one.

Ok. I kind of have a boyfriend. Were on a break though.
I been fucking this other guy though. And Im 2-3 weeks late. :frowning: Hes the only guy Ive done within like 4 months so if, god forbid, im pregnant itd be his.

the fucked up shit about it all is my "bf" treats me like a queen hes the epitome of every girls' dream. also i have severe dyslasia that wont quit. (that means i have precancerous cell growing rapidly) doctors have tried to take it out but it came back twice...im scared theyll have to take out my cervix and this may be my only chance to ever have a kid. so im torn between - hurting the best thing that ever happened to me and possibly losing him, missing out on a child of my own, giving up my life so to speak, and the thought of killing something inside me that was self inflicted seems wrong too.

not to mention the guy i was doing im not with i have no feelings for same with him as far as i know.
part of me wants to tell him and part of me doesnt.
i want to wait to find out then let him in but i also feel like i dont wanna burden him like i just want to either have it or not (assuming the worst) and not even deal with this. but thats irresposible...

About my "bf"... i have 2 options...
[polloption=Explain Everything.]
[polloption=Just tell him fuck you so he can get over me w/o feeling betrayed.]

Pray for meeh. =]
Hopefully Im not pregnant then this will all be irrelavent.
And I wont have to deal with anything...
btw. is there any "right" or "wrong" or will i prolly always wonder what if?

First off, it is girls like you that destroy nice guys and ruin them for nice girls like myself. I do not mean that to sound like a bitch. But I hope in the future you think before you hurt someone else.

Anyway, you need to take a pregnancy test. Actually if I were you, I would go to the doctor for the test. Your period may just be irregular due to your rapidly growing cancer cells.

About the boyfriend, do you still want to be with him? If so, I think you should be honest with him. Let him decide if he still wants to be with you.

I think you should take a test or go to the doctor too, before you say anything to anyone. If you are not pregnant, stop messing up with your perfect boyfriend.Why would you not want to sleep with him but choose to sleep with someone who you have no feelings for. This to me makes no sense.

Thank you. And no I dont take it personally when you say "girls like me" because i realize theres truth in what your saying.But dont you think maybe there was some guy who maybe did this to me? Because Honestly I was always this way.And Hotpants. My boyfriend and i didnt have good sex. We werent about that and connected deeper. However I like sex and sex doesnt mean you have to have feelings for someone. It was "just in fun"

I also agree that you should get a pregnancy test done, and possibly a test for other things, because you never know where a guy (especially one who's willing to sleep with a taken woman) has been.About you and your boyfriend, You didn't have good sex, or you didn't have sex? Because bad sex can always be made better and no sex is something that can usually be fixed. Either way, I'm left wondering why, if he's the amazing, perfect guy you're saying he is, did you cheat on him? And as for your statement of "However I like sex and sex doesnt mean you have to have feelings for someone." the situation you are in wouldn't exist if the mad you were fucking was the man you had feelings for. And don't you think it would be better for the child and yourself if it was love, rather than lust involved in the sex? After all, hon, that's the only way babies can be made.

Let us know how the test goes.

Negative!!!I was prolly stressed out. Im gunna be smarter. =] thank you everyone though!