I know he's hanging around with the wrong crowd and acting a little rebellious towards my father but now it seems like he's really out of control. I hate his friends they all get on my nerves. Everytime I go over to see him they're at his house and always saying nasty rude things to me and touching all up on me like the dumbasses they are... excuse my language. But I seriously don't like them thinking they're all gangsta or whatever. They piss me off so much because everytime I go to talk to him they're always like "oh dang man forget her you got other things to deal with and blah blah blah I'm a dirty bum blah blah blah" whatever. I'm his sister who are you? Go get yourself and education you stupid high school drop out! GJLDF;GJAF;SL EJ;Y sorry I'm pissed... But anyway I just got really upset and I was talking to him and telling he needs to stop acting the way he is and actually pay attention to what's really going on but he won't listen to me. His friends are not good I know it. I don't know what they told him because I didn't even say anything bad to him a couple hours earlier I swear I didn't honestly I would know. We were just like arguing in Portugese for a bit but that was it and I didn't even say anything bad to him. And when I was trying to get him to come away he hit me. It wasn't even like a really hurtful hit more like a stinging one. It didn't make me cry or anything. I was more upset and shocked than sad. Nobody hits me unless its my dad or mom and it's hardly ever in the face. And I was like "hey what's your problem" and then he sort of switched his whole attitude to "tough guy on the block" to "oh I'm so sorry" crapiness. What the heck is his problem? He would never do something like that to me because he's always been my "protector" or "bodyguard" and yet in the presence of his stupid dumb butt ugly gorilla looking jungle headed nasty toothless jgo;aiogy;awj yoa;q friends he thinks he can act any old way. I'm super upset if you haven't noticed!! What's up with him? Sorry for the ranting of this post but I'm seriously just going to murder every single one of his friends. I do think they have an influence on him but I don't know. He's always been the one we look up to for having self-control and whatever. He's supposed to influence them not the other way around. I'm worried..
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What's up with my brother?
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Sorry JapanFan, but it's his life, not yours, and you're being a busybody. No wonder he's losing patience with you.Lots of people find the need to rebel at some stage in order to make their own way. It's normal and healthy. By insulting his friends you are driving him away from you and towards his friends.They may not be good for him but you are making the situation worse. Back off completely and let him make his own mistakes - it's important for him.
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You can't be serious. I haven't said anything to his dumb friends ever. Not in their faces at least but I have said things about them in my mind. Never to their faces or in front of him. They're like 20 or something. I don't care what he does with his life but he's such a hypocrite if he's always telling me to be good and crap and not do this and that when he goes out with those idiots and doing things he's not supposed to do. Ok so what for what he does. That gives him the right to hit me? To allow his friends to say and do whatever they want to me? What kind of so called brother is that? He has a wife and kid that he doesn't even look after anymore. He never spends time with her. He hasn't even been to his son's last birthday. He's being a jerk and there's no excuse for that. Gosh he's a hypocrite.
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Most of us give better advice than we take ourselves. Of course he should be looking after his wife and kid, and he shouldn't have hit you. But why do you go over there, since your visits are unwelcome? You're not doing him good.
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I go over there not only to visit my nephew but to spend time with him along with my younger brother like we used to do all the time. He would put his friends before his family? He can't make it clear to us that maybe he doesn't want us around? I can take a hint. He's the same guy that gave me trouble for having a caucasian boyfriend and now he can't take back criticism? How ironic. Man it stinks having brothers. Should have been an only child... ugh
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Well.. I think you should let him be.. let his wife handle it
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easier said then done. he's not just some person I've known for 5 seconds this "guy" was with me for ... how old am I... 15...15 years. I can't just pretend he's not acting like a bum. I'll try not talking to him as long as he just leaves me out of it. But it's still not that easy.
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Cut that bitch up!
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Well hun, I don't think there is much you can do .. He is a grown man.. he has started his own family.. let him learn from my mistakes.. hes already made it clear he can handle it himself