So I've had a vibrator for a while, and I'm gonna be honest. I use it a lot. However, I've only been able to climax a few times since I've started using it. Every time it gets uncomfortable, unbearable to have the vibrator on my clit. I have to stop, and start again..b/c it feels like i"m going to pee, but it's not the same as when I actually cum. Does this happen to anyone else using a vibrator? What do you do?
I can't get there!
You need to relax a bit more... and try moving it to a different place or having different movements if it becomes to sensitive. Is it like a dildo vibrator, or a clitoral vibrator? if its like a dildo then use it in your vagina and if you just have to have clitoral stimulation rub your clit while your doing it.