okay i know a girl that i really like and want to go out with, but her best friend wanted to go out with me. now her best friend is making it so that the girl i really like hates me, and it wasnt always that way, we used to be close friends. but now she dont want to talk to me at all.it really started going down hill 2 days ago when her best friend and me were talking on the net, while she was on the phone with her. and she was starting to ask why i would go out with her. and kept going down hill till she said, so do you think she is a whore, and after that i havent talked to her. so i dont know what was said, but yahoo recorded the conversation so i have proof that she pushed me into this hole.The question is how can i get out???
depends. what's the best friend saying? like, saying you'd be a bad boyfriend? or you're a scummy jerk? or what? there's a few things you can do.... prove the best friend is either lying or mistaken about you (and those are very different things, mind you). you could also explain to the girl that her best friend is a very biased source of information. if the girl you like is too snotty and distant to hear you out, she isn't worth dating.
I would have to say you might be screwed, but there is way to get out of it. You have to this girl alone without her best friend just don't try to get her to turn on her best friend show her what you mean. You say you like her and if you do than this might help you ask her out in the end. Just try to show her not tell her that her best friend is the one that isn't acting right.