Grinding

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I'm almost sure I know what it is, but could someone please explain what it is so I can know for sure.Is it when a guy presses his crotch against a girl's ass and they move together while ''dancing''?If that's right, do women expect the men to get hard? is that okay?

oh yah! that's when people get mad freaky deaky. My friends usually go to these little parties that they have. Only amongst themselves though or friends from school. Dance competitions after parties etc etc. They do it all the time. Especially if they have a big butt, the guy seems to like it better. I've only done it a couple times. It does get out of control at times. But it's only when dancing that it happens. And it has to do with the type of music too like raggea or hip hop r&b... things like that. Otherwise I try to stay away from it lol because when things like that happen hands seem to roam. Recently my friend has a sweet sixteen and they were dancing down in the basement at 3 am in the morning. Lot of grinding down there. But usually when it's just girls dancing that's better. I had a guy come up behind me and start doing something like that. Nasty.

Okay, here's a situation. Say Ice Cube - Put your as into it comes on, and the girl drags you over and starts dancing really close to you.

what do you mean? to answer your other question I think the girl prefers for the guy to get hard.

I think I had another question, but that's really all I wanted to know. lolDo they mind, do they want it like that? If they're the ones who started to grind do you think they mind/want you to get hard/expect you to get hard?I could use some more responces. Thanks a lot JapanFan14

I think it really depends on the girl/how well you know them and all sorts. I've never really been in a situation where griding dancing's been going on, but I don't think I would like it too much if some guy got a hard on up against me while I was dancing. I'd be flattered, but still, it would be wierd. Especially because none of the guys I know would dance like that so it would be a stranger I was doing it with. But then again I don't like it if I'm dancing to the kind of music I like and a guy come up dancing behind me. I like to see who I'm dancing with before I turn my back on them! So it might just be me being paranoid...

Well, at our school, most of us girls neither expect you to get hard, or are disappointed when you don't... If it happens, it happens.

Okay, here's a situation. Say Ice Cube - Put your as into it comes on, and the girl drags you over and starts dancing really close to you. Also, when she drags you over, she turns around. BTW, it's obvious she's trying to grind. Do you think she'd mind/want you to get hard/expect you to get hard?>_> Thank you ajmakoko

No / probably / maybe so.