Lately I see myself just.. checking a lot of my friends out.. my eyes just rest on intimate spots of their body, and I can't really help it. I have long accepted that I have feelings for guys, but that I would never have expected that I would get turned on by my best friends. I sometimes also have fantasies about them. Anyway, I have sort of had my coming out and they know I'm gay. Yet I don't feel like I should look at them for some reason and don't feel / comfertable / but I still uncontrollably do it.
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Checking my friends out?
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Same issue for guys with female friends, and vice-versa, I presume.
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I see nothing wrong with you checking out your male friends. As long as you respect the boundaries of no touching. There is no harm in looking and even fantasizing.
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Just try not to make it ovious.
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hahaha, that reminds me, i went through a phase when i was younger where i couldnt help looking at boobs...ALOT, like i litteratly couldnt stop myself. anyway, it was just a phase...
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Well we both check out others and I don't care that my girlfriend does it and she doesn't care if I do it. She will see me looking at another girl's breasts and butt but she doesn't care because she knows I am not going to cheat on her.I see looking at other guys all the time. We don't want to be to controlling of each other because all that will do is hurt our serious relationship.