I think I have a problem with having some damn balls and talking to people. I mean I havn't had a g/f in like two years despite the fact that im fairly decent looking and have a pretty good size pool to choose from. But I find myself just sitting there whenever I talk to them lol...I mean I can talk to females and just be their friend but whenever it moves in that direction I just shut down and thats it....I'll sit there and murmer a few words and they will walk away rofl...I dont want them to think I don't like them (as a friend or as whatever)....I dunno only happens with chicks im interested in like 'that'....I know this may be common but does anyone have any personal anecdotes for this besides "stop being a pansy"? =)PS: Sorry if I wasn't clear enough rofla BTW I found this board cause I was looking for tips on how to get an electric raxor or any razor for that matter to get a decent shave on your neck it seems the same spot will never shave like right of my adams apple (Yea I know its a bit off topic but hell, why not!)
I think this is a problem..
Damn I feel your pain. I can flirt and shit, but when it comes to making a move I just can't do it. I almost have my first girl friend and its soooo obvious that she likes me, but for some god damned reason I cant make a move. Wtf!
well i dont know your age but, maybe you're the kind of person that becomes shy around the person u like... i know it is VERY hard to amuse your date.. but just talk about something she likes (atleast pretend you know the topic) cuz girls like to talk... begin a drink asking her wut kind of stuff she likes... and its really cool if something funny happens in the surrounding cuz u can talk about that, hope this helps ... and if this fails... just dye your hair black or dark brown and go for the mysterious type lol, ive heard a lot of girls like that too
-----and for "making the move"-----
first off, you're gonna need to get over the fear of being rejected by the girl... try making a sensual mood, to let the girl have a feeling about you making the move... cuz if shes uncomfortable about the mood shed just leave (as in going to the bathroom) or she might lead the direction another way... a good sensual mood might be a sex/kiss scene in a movie, being in the same room alone, or touching him/her more
if all else fails... ask her if she wants it... lol
-----shaving? lol, ill try..-----
just SHAVE lol thats the only thing i can say...
try holding the razor upside down and lift your chin up and glide it from your adams apple towards your chin...
hope thats clear ;x if not watch those razor commercials carefully and learn XD
i know exactly what you talkin about! but its exactly what he said... train you mind into the mode it doesn't matter what they think and you'll do just fine! i have a problem setting my standards... there are really hot chicks whos number i have and all but i just dont feel like any of them are my type... i know i might sound like a chick right now but thats "the i dont give a flying f*ck what you think" train of mind i have, but their attitude towards stuff is not really attractive, and when i ask my self what is my type and cant really come up with an answer.. its kinda weird
same here but i'm about to advance to talkin to this girl more and going out with her. its been a while for me, about 2 or 3 years and it shouldn't be too hard. i can only imagine my voice cracking when i ask her out...
Things never go exactly the way they are planned, but that doesn't matter, because muddling through is still good.
Some girls like it when a guy is bashful and stumbles over words. My ex-girlfriend (i don't like to put it that way but ....) thought it was funny when I stumbled over wrods when I made the move.