ok, so me and my girlfriend are probably going to have sex very soom, and were both virgins. so i was wondering about a few things...I dont want to cum in about 5 or 10 minutes i want it to last, for me and her, so i was wondering if i could start out licking and fingering her and then slowly a few times go in on her, and then finger her and tongue her again...and so on.I really want her to have a good time just because i owe allot to her, and what about if i pop her cherry? in my brand new bed...and bed set, is there a way to stop it from going on the bed or does it come out in the wash?and also would there be a way succh as i have read have 2 condoms and slip one on, and when you cum, take one off wip e and throw the other on? and keep going
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A few questions...
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Hey bud, you've got a good plan there on those first few suggestions about keeping things going and "playing" around some with her first - she'll need that anyway to be "ready" to have intercourse, females take a bit longer getting aroused. It is probably going to take longer than you think anyway - a vagina is very different than any masturbation you've ever done. And NO DO NOT use two condoms, that increases the chances of condom failure or slipping off. "Popping a cherry" doesn't always lead to alot of bleeding and for some there isn't any visible blood at all. However, to be safe just place a dark towel under her and that'll prevent anything from being visible on your new bed. Finally, make sure you're both ready for this - its a big step in a relationship.
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From what I read, the OP never said anything about "double bagging" (using two condoms at once).
I interpretted what he said as use one, orgasm, take it off, wipe, put a new condom on, and keep going.
I doubt the "keep going" part would work well, especially on a virgin (I am one, my boyfriend is too, so don't take offense) but it's a nice thought.
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Hey man - you're right, I missed the "take one off, throw another one on explanation" - my bad!
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No problem! I thought the rest of your post was helpful. Hopefully the OP will think so, too.
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lance is right about using two condoms at once thoughas most of them are lubricated, having one on top of the other increases the chances of them slipping off and the extra friction of the rubber can cause splittingwhich defeats the purpose
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You might just want to spend a bit of time getting to know her body, before taking the plunge. (literally) Foreplay can be some of the most exciting and entertaining activity when it comes to sex. I find that I spend more time on foreplay than I do the actual sex sometimes. Once you get to know her body, you'll be less nervous about what's going to happen, and you'll enjoy it more than if you're wondering if she'll bleed or what's comfortable (etc, etc.) More than likely, you'll ejaculate far sooner than you anticipate just because it's your first time and the excitement/nervousness get a hold of you and BAM! You've already let the juices flow. As far as switching condoms goes, do what feels comfortable. Some guys change out their condoms after discharge, and some leave them on for the sake of the woman's orgasm. It depends on how you feel, and again, what you feel is comfortable. Sex is supposed to be an enjoyable experience. Have fun and don't stress yourself out! -M.Y.
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Most men lose their erection soon after ejuaculating, so it may be a moot question. In any case, if you start to go soft, you need to get your penis and it's semen-filled condom out of there.I wouldn't bet on your partner having an orgasm from first intercourse, but you never know.