Braking the golden rule

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Ok i need some advice. One of my best m8s (gaz) sends this girl (sara) my email address on msn. It happens to be his X girlfriend. They split up about 2 years ago. Gaz has a gf now and she has just broke up from a 2 year realtionship.So i got chatting to her on msn and we got on really really well. We just seem to talk all night to the early hours.Anyway after about 4 weeks now of chatting to her we talked about meeting up. Shes lives miles away from me but im goin up that way anyway on the 13th. The problem is she wants me to speak to gaz about me goin to meet her.Gaz knows that iv been chatting to her but i dnt think he knows i like her. This is goin to be the hardest convo wit a friend i think iv ever had. Anyone been here? any advice? dont go 4 the girl or wot?? HELP To make things worse sara has told me that gaz has told her that he still likes her

They have been apart now for 2 years, AND he has another Girlfriend........I can't see a problem shrug

I serioulsly doubt that he'll have a problem with it. He certainly should not. He should be very happy for you.

You shouldn't expect any problems with it, he has a new girl in his life and from the sound of it he still gets along with his ex.

well here was the outcome of the chat i had with him. I wanted to speak to him in person really but it didnt happen: "i dont no wat to make of it. but like one min she is in love happily with ross, then they have a row and spilt up and she comes on here crying to me, then i tried to tell her that i don’t want to be with her and i have a gf and im happy and then we start rowing so she decided to stop bombarding me with the messages and chat to u, witch is ok im glad she has someone new to talk over and she needs to get over me ffs, but then like as b4 she now phoning me up and telling me she loves me and crying about me but I don’t understand how she keep changing her mind who she wanna be with .. so like I no u 2 wanna meet up but in my view it’s a bit fucked up because I don’t know how she can say u she love me but then want to meet up with other guys .I cant seem to get her out of my life, she always is there to come back and haunt me and like I don’t know im unsure but u2 getting close just seems wiered as I no her so well and my ex and mate meeting up perhaps more than friends is just something that.seems a bit out of order as me and her used to be really close, I would be happy if it was one of her mates u was having more feelings for I guess but cnt really talk about it over msn really"still dont no wot to do lol. oh well im of to c the girl in 2 weeks

--- "I cant seem to get her out of my life, she always is there to come back and haunt me"HA! I know how that feels like.For me, there's only one girl that I consider to be off limits forever from my buddies. It's the girl I fell in love with and now we are on none speaking terms... considering that I told her off and said I would never speak to her again.Anyway, if one of my buddies did start dating her, I would probably not really want to associate with them while they are together. So, I just wanted to give you that warning.Any other girls I've dated, I don't care.

Bear in mind that I've had a similar convo on MSN and Gaz could just be exaggurating because he likes the attention. It happens.

ur picture scares me everytime, it gives me nightmares, and so does the evil monkey that lives in my closet

Iv used it 4 times, it never fails.When a girl refuses to leave you aloe no matter how rudely you tell them to piss off try my approved dump method.She will fucking hate you and she wot bother you again. Or atleast thats how its worked for me, but keep in mind, I did get a solid punch in the balls once for it...Fuck em, roll em over an hang the shit out of em, then let them blow you, just after you cume, when her face is still in your lap, and your dick just slides out of her lips, rip ass, as loud as rank as possible.plan ahead, eat some deviled eggs and a fucking granola bar earlier in the day.You bust that in her face, she gets the idea real quik that she WANTS to be rid of you.Its not with out risks understand, but its never let me down when I needed it.

Technically your friend should not be bothered - if he was he shouldnt have introduced you in the first place .Practically it is a bit tricky as it might put a strain on your friendship i suppose you could hint at it and gauge his reaction first .

cheers but its all sorted now, i meet up with the girl a few weeks back, went good but dont think anything will ever happen between us. And me and my m8 are on good terms so no harm done