okay, ive never had a real girlfriend. i had a couple of online things like 3 years ago but that wasnt like a real girlfriend to me, i always heard people talking about their girlfriends/boyfriends and thought id never have that. and ive grown a lot since then. now, finally a girl is actually taking real interest in me. shes really pretty and nice, and i mean, shes clearly into me, we kissed at a party a few days back and shes basically asking me to ask her out. shes going to france for a week in a few days, but i got her number and im definetly gonna ask her out. the formality of the whole kissing thing isnt there since we have kissed already and i think she kind of doubts if i like her or not ( she doesnt seem too confident ) so i think thats kind of an advantage for me, but damn im nervous. i want it to go well, and i want to get her to be my girlfriend, but im not too good at keeping a balance, yknow? i dont wanna seem too eager, but i dont wanna distance myself to the extent that i seem like im not interested. does anyone have any advice? please. thanks.-max
Chance at a first real girlfriend
Better to show her you're interested. Don't spill everything, but definitely try not to distance yourself too much. If you're interested, then ask her out.Do you plan on waiting until she leaves or doing it before? You might even want to ask her beforehand if she wants to hook up later and just leave the idea there or make a plan, enough so that she knows you're interested. Just be sure to say something to her. Treat it less like a strategic game and focus on you two. You like her and she likes you, seem like a good situation to me.
Treat it less like a strategic game and focus on you two.That's the best advice I've heard in a long time.