hey guys.i had a fight with my mum this morning over the most stupid thing ever, but she turned it into something big. she went mental and started screaming at me, telling me to stop screaming at her, when i wasnt. she stomped around the house like a child telling me to find my own way to the doctors (she was ment to bring me cos im quite sick) and drove off into the distance.this is just your regular fight, and thats fine. but its that after every fight, if its my fault or not, im always the one to say sorry first and 90% of the time, she doesnt appoligse back to me even after saying nasty stuff that hurts me. so i told myself that this time its her turn to say sorry, because i cant remeber the last time she did. first or other wise. i told her im not saying sorry this time. and i havnt talked to her since. i know it seems childish and really stubborn but this is somethign i have to do. she just pisses me off so much that i just want to start crying and never stop.so i need to know. . . shud i swollow my pride (whats left of it) and say sorry even if she doesnt say it bk. which i really dont want to do.wait for her to say sorry first (that cud be weeks)please help guys!thankx~+xXsamXx+~
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Stubborn??
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Sometimes it is important to stand up for yourself.
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she wouldn't take you to the docs when you're sick?then you have absolutely nothing to be sorry about.and you shouldn't take turns when saying sorry.if you were wrong,then you say sorry (unless you don't really mean it) and if the other person is wrong, they say sorry. wheather its your parents,or friends, doesn't make a difference.
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i totally agree, but she doesnt she that. now shes storming around the house, slamming dorrs, making it obvious she isnt talking to me. and when i ask her a question she'll give me one-word answers.this jus annoys me more and more so im not breaking this time and saying sorry.
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well. anyway she's ur mom. she raised u up eventhough she wrong but she's ur mom u know what i mean.. to me if my mom do wrong i still be happy and listen to her cuz she spent like 20 years to raise me up and stuff.. and its time for me to do something for me.. old people are really like umm they want everyhitng their way and stuff.. but iono that just me.. anyway cheer up!