i don't want to, but if its between that and wet dreams, i guess ill have to. i dunno what i can do though...i guess i could do it in the shower...but ive always felt really weird doing it while standing up, dunno why. id prefer not to have to do it on the shitter, because usually theres a bit of a....mess involved, and yeah, cant have that. so yeah, what other tips can you guys give me as far as stealthinedd goes?im at college now btw, woo.
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J/o at college...
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try to j/o while your roommate is gone - i guess that would be your best bet.
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Why do guys get so freaked out when it comes to jerking off at college? Is it that they all of a sudden stop knowing that most every guy on the planet masturbates? So if you are worried about doing the deed with your roommate around, he is probably feeling the same thing. So why not get things out in the open and work ou a plan to deal with little things as they arise.
I've had several roomates over the years, both in college and after, and we've always managed to come to an understanding when it comes to enjoying our self-pleasures. Sure there's the initial embarassment when the roommate sees all but that passes and then it's just relax and enjoy for the rest of the term.
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i know what you mean i just started school and i have three other people in my suite and im getting irritated becuase you never have time alone and when you do every sound gets you paranoid and the shower sux especially when it takes you longer than 30 min to do it standing up
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on your room mates pillow case. only if its white though.
dont feel guilty, he'll probably do the same to you.
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I always jacked off in the shower while at college, or in the room when I knew my roommate was at class or whatever. I've heard my roommate jacking off in his bed at night many times though. I never said anything to him about it, but it was kind of funny to hear it.
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thx for the replies guys. well, it really sucks right now because my roommate is there whenever i am. we pretty much have classes at the exact same times, so the only time i get to myself in the dorm is when he goes to hang out with friends or what not. i guess i could do it in the bathroom if need be. i would rather not discuss this at all with my roommate, because i don't feel comfortable discussing those kinds of things with other people. but yeah, i think ill survive. lol
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i was the type of roomate focus had. i just did it. not where my roomate could see. but i know he could hear, that is if he was awake. i tried to do it when he wasnt there or at night when he was asleep though i know a couple of nights he was probly doin the same....we never said anything to each other about it. i just asumed he jacked too so it never was a big deal.
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I have just graduated from university and have been liviing in dormitory for 2 years (not consecutively). I understand what you are concerned as I have been on the same boat with you.As my roommates were my classmates (or to be exact, my major-mates), we atteneded almost the same classes most of the time (especially when I was in year 1. My roommate and my classes are nearly exactly the same!). So I don't have much private time. Even if my roommate was not in my room, I could not predict when he would come back suddenly, so I dare not do anything private.And also the washroom (shower room) was about 6 rooms away from my room, so if I j/o and shot my wad, I would have to dispose the used tissue (leaving that kind of tissue might fill the room with the smell of semen) and it was not a good idea to have that kind of tissue in your hand when you are heading for the washroom in the corridor.Therefore, I have just j/o a few times only when I was in dormitory. About twice during shower, and some times when my roommates went back home in the weekends.I have never j/o when my roommate was in the same room since I thought it might scare him away or make him think I want to do something strange with him. And I think masturbation is something private, so I never did it with others' existence. And I haven't caught neither one of my roommates masturbating throughout those 2 years.What I suggest is, if you feel fine to talk about j/o issue with him, go talk about it. As every man is supposed to have this habit (hobby?), he may also feel relaxed if you can talk about it with him and make any agreements if necessary. Just give him and yourself chance to talk, there's nothing you and your roommate cannot solve.Hope it help.
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I find masturbating embarassing when it comes to girls. I mean if me and ma doodz are chatting and it comes up, it's not that bad. But if a chick overhears it it's like I wanna kill myself.