there's this girl i really like, and how is a good way to ask her if she has a bf or not without giving too much of a hint? also, wut signs would she show if she liked me too?
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Does she have a bf or not?
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Why do you want to avoid giving a hint, sex godess? Surely she won't be upset if you ask her if she has a bf, even if she realises that means you are interested in her.
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well i mean, it would screw up the friendship we have right now wouldn't it?
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well,we met in history class, at the begining of the school year (august 17 ish) we talk alot to each other during class, and make each other laugh, and we are added to each other's top friends on myspace..... i'm 14 (15 in 2 months) and she is 15
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im sorry, are you a guy? because your name is godess....sorry, whatever, anywayif its that hard to find out if she has a boyfriend, dont try and force it in conversation. when you ask her out at some point, she'll tell you. being rejected by somebody because they're taken does not mean that its never gonna happen. ill tell you what will severely lower your chances though- getting TOO close. you want to be interesting, show her you're interested, and make her laugh, but dont get so close that she says you're like her 'brother' or something. seriously, too many times i hear guys complain that theyre really nice and follow girls around and spend time with them and theyre pissed off cuz the girl just wants to be friends. and then they complain that the girl goes out with some 'prick' who doesnt even pay attention to her. dont become one of those bitter people. adapt.btw, if you are a girl and you're a lesbian, im sorry i referred to you as a boy so many times. its just easier to write advice that way.
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1st yes i'm a guy, alot of the people here know why i have that name, and 2nd, i get wut u mean, but how do u sorta show ur interested?
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and would eating lunch with her, and talking to her during open mods, and sitting next to her in class be too close?
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basically, you want to make it clear that you like her but not make it seem like you're really easy to get.
basically, if you where to be unattentive and not listen to her, she would think you werent interested in her at all. so listen to her, pay attention to her, but DONT follow her around everywhere. dont spend way too much time with her. you want to be a 'friend' not a 'buddy' if you know what i mean. i know a guy who thought getting to know a girl inside and out and spending time with her always was the best way to get her to like him, and he hasnt had a decent girlfriend in years. learn by observing.and no, eating lunch with her is fine.