Ok, here's an interesting one. I have made a post earlier titled "Will I ever orgasm?" Since then people have suggested vibrators, etc. Well, I found our back massager in my brother's room, so I tried it out. It was awesome...I don't think I had an orgasm, but that was the closest I've ever been. Anyway, when I got home the next night, the massager had mysteriously disappeared from my room (it was under some of my clothing, so I know someone had put up a nice search for it). I had a feeling before, that my brother "used it." Yeah, a little while ago, I found it in his bed under all his covers, in the corner, with a very disgusting towel. I know that it's normal for a boy his age (16) to masterbate...but is it necessary for the vibrator? My brother is a pretty disgusting person. He has before masterbated in front of my 7 year old sister and asked her to touch it. She came and told me and I ended up reporting it to social services, cuz my parents neglected to help. That is not normal. He's also, well for the sake of you weak stomached people, I won't go into detail, but he has even worse problems with hygiene/laziness (teeth, face, bowel movements). Now I find our back massager(huge vibrator, hey that's what it is) in his bed. And we all know that he's not using it for his back. I woulc like to use it for me every once in a while...lol...(after I clean it very well). I know this seems kind of hypocritical of me, but because of his past rather disgusting behavior...I just don't feel right about this. I've taken it from his room and put it in the back of my closet. I think if he needs to masterbate that bad, he should learn to not be so lazy and use his hand. This kid seriously sits in front of the computer ALL DAY, and he's WAY overweight. He's seeing a therapist, but he's a huge work in progress. I'm not sure what to do. What if he comes in my room again looking for it? Should his behavior be ignored? (no, I don't think so) Should I just get rid of the massager all together? Responses will be greatly appreciated. I listen to all opinions.
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My brother uses a vibrator?
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Knowing how "disgusting" your brother is, you took something from his room and masturbated with it without washing it first? And then you kept it in your room, basically letting him know what you did? Sounds like you're not much better than him
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why don't you just go out and buy one?
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Yeah, maybe I wasn't very clear, I said I found a back massager in my brother's room. At that point, I was thinking it was just a coincidence. I didn't leave it in my room where he would know what I did, I said it was under some clothes. I feel disgusting now, that I hadn't washed it, luckily it didn't make direct contact with me or anything, I don't know if it does with him. Anyway, the fact that he came in my room looking for it, found it and then went and hid it in his room, confirmed my suspicions about what he was using it for. I said that it is now hidden in the back of my closet. I don't appreciate a stranger saying that I'm not much better than him (I do appreciate the response). I told you up there that he masterbated in front my 7 year old sister...plus worse things. If you compare THAT to someone who takes a back massager out of her brother's room, then... I don't know what to say about that. It's just screwed up. I am being hypocritical about the whole vibrator thing, but his behavior shouldn't be encouraged until he can learn some maturity. Don't use a back massager that the family uses so you can get off. And definately not in front of your sister. I might go buy one, but I was just experimenting with it. I don't really want to use it now that I know what he does with it. How does it even work for guys anyway?
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In reply to: I think if he needs to masterbate that bad, he should learn to not be so lazy and use his hand. ummm.. couldnt the same be said back at you?if you get rid of it, he'll just find something else to use... i mean, if he likes putting things up there because it feels good.. then you cant stop him using something.i know this is a long shot, but prehaps the both of you could go shopping for a 'toy' for each of yourselves... (or something along those lines, so he's not using family appliances...)
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Yeah, maybe I wasn't very clear, I said I found a back massager in my brother's room. At that point, I was thinking it was just a coincidence. I didn't leave it in my room where he would know what I did, I said it was under some clothes.
It doesn't matter if you hid it in your room or left it out in the open, he would still know you were snooping around his room in order to find it. Why the hell can't people cover their tracks...
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i get you midnight,you are doing nothing wrong,and your brother is a pig of note.her sounds like a monster!go buy a vibrator and have fun you're over 18,right?yeah,so go for it.just keep it hidden from your brother
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haha, thanks, at least someone understands. yeah, in response to the other replies, i AM being hypoctritical, i said that, it's selfish of me, yes, to want to use it rather than him. there is selfishness in all humans. I've tried using my hand...it just doesn't do it for me...whereas it's easier for a guy to get off by using his hand. C'mon ladies and guys, we know this. But, you are right, it still doesn't make it right for me to go back in and "snoop" in his room...looking for the back massager. Technically snooping is going in and just looking and going through their private things..I had a particular thing I was looking for. I had to just move some blankets and I found it...so that's not really snooping. But, I guess it could be called that, since he didn't know about it. When I first found it, I wasn't snooping, I had gone in there looking for our cats, and the massager was there on the floor. Because it is the family's, I just saw it as a back massager, not as the tool my brother uses to get off. It's weird how quick people are to say bad things about me. But, whatever, they're your opinions. It's just you don't really know everything about my brother, if you did...it'd be a whole different story. I thought telling you about him and my 7 year old sister woulda done it..but it's weird there was really no reaction to that...just that I'm as much of a slimeball as him (which is most definately wrong). weird.
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Well, it was just my brother and I up tonight, everyone else had gone to bed. As I was headed upstairs, my brother asks me, "Is it you going in my room and taking the back massager?" So, I responded..."Yeah, let's not get into that..." He was like "huh?" (gave me a pretend 'I have no idea what you're talking about' look) and I was like "Yeah, I'm not dumb, I know what you're using it for. I don't think you'd like me to bring it up in front of mom and dad what you're using their back massager for. If you need to do that, just use your hand." He kind of smiled and that was it. I went upstairs. See? I wasn't putting him down or anything for masterbating, I just took the family appliance away. :smirk:
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Where exactly is "up there" that he is "putting things"?(um, how do I respond to a certain sentence like all you other cool people?)
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In reply to: Where exactly is "up there" that he is "putting things"? i was assuming that he was using the massager for rear entry prostate stimulationif i'm wrong, it doesnt make much of a difference In reply to: (um, how do I respond to a certain sentence like all you other cool people?) hit the 'quote' button when you reply, and copy / paste the text inbetween the quote thinggies that come up In reply to: "Yeah, I'm not dumb, I know what you're using it for. I don't think you'd like me to bring it up in front of mom and dad what you're using their back massager for. If you need to do that, just use your hand." what happens if he finds out what you've used it for?
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im gonna guess the back massager is to big to fit into his anus.
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In reply to:using the massager for rear entry prostate stimulation Ok, actually, that makes a lot of sense to me. Kinda connects a few pieces of the puzzle. I don't know why I was a retard and didn't assume that in the first place. You're most likely right,...there are too many clues in that direction. (My parents have caught him looking at gay porn before...any links?) In reply to: what happens if he finds out what you've used it for? Well, he knows I have it, he just doens't know where. Since my little mind found out what he was actually using it for, I haven't used it since that one time. I'm not planning on using it again, either. I'll just have to go out and buy another one, a "non-used one." Oh, and in responce to the other reply, this back massager has two round "knobs" on the end of it, they rotate and vibrate and heat, so one of them could be stuck up there if he wanted to. You know, thinking about all of this still makes me wonder (I've wondered about this in the past a few times)...my brother has certain psychological issues, medical issues, and other "issues". Each thing kinda makes me wonder whether he was raped as a child or something. It's kind of scary to think about, but there are a lot of clues. I don't want to like, jump into anything, or make a total fool of myself. Also, as I mentioned earlier, about the gay porn thing...if he were "gay" or whatever, that would be very "looked down upon by my family." Masterbation is looked down upon by our family. (religous family) So, he doesn't have a very good history in my house, so I don't know if that encourages him to be this way or what. Other than all that weird stuff, he is a really nice kid. Just kinda screwed up with ways to release sexual tension. Is the anal vibrator thing a common thing among guys? Maybe I'm just not "clued in."
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only you will be able to think such things that he has been mistreated as a child as you obvoiusly know alot more about him than we do. this would be very hard to talk about to anyone, especially if you're not very close. and if you are close, then it must be deep down inside him because he would have told you by now.not sure what you can do in this situation In reply to: Is the anal vibrator thing a common thing among guys? a vibrator no, not really. but guys shoving a finger up there to see what that scene in "road trip" was all about.. probably more so...
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You really don't have anything nice to say about your brother do you? You just keep putting him down. Using a vibrator can be common among males and has nothing to do with being gay.
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Yeah, I guess my brother has been portrayed as rather a horrible human being in this post. He is a good kid otherwise, mostly keeps all this stuff that I know about, a secret from outsiders. Probably wouldn't be too popular among his friends. The side of him I've been talking about in this post is the side I'm concerned about. I guess that makes him look like a bad person. Obviously I can't do a full personality sketch of him for you all...so sorry. I mean, I have had problems with him a lot in the past. We really don't get along very well because of his problems (mentally). He has interesting behaviors is all I'll say (non-sexual and sexual). Being in my family can be stressful and frustrating sometimes. About a year and a half ago, I broke away from our family religon. (I finally told them...I had been against the beliefs for quite a while). So..obviously there is some friction between my parents and I, and even the rest of my family. I won't mention the religon, cuz I don't want to start any unneccesary debates, but trust me, it's a weird one, and ...yeah. So anyway, I guess I'm using this forum as an outlet...sorry about all the complaining, I guess I should just get a journal. I just like being able to talk to people, and have them responding to my thoughts.
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In reply to: Using a vibrator can be common among males and has nothing to do with being gay. I wasn't inferring that a male using a vibrator means he's gay, I was linking the fact that he looks at gay porn, and using a vibrator in his rear as a possiblity of being gay.You also said that vibrators are common among males. The other person said it isn't. Sooo...which is it? Explain please
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You also said that vibrators are common among males. The other person said it isn't. Sooo...which is it? Explain please
i said its much more common for guys to try anal stimulation with their fingers rather than to go buy and use a vibrator
amanda said "Using a vibrator can be common among males"
i think the "can" is the keyword
...that leaves much up to the imagination on how common it is...i know a few guys that have tried their fingers up there (including me.. only cause of what the others said!! bah it was lame too.. no stimulation for me!) but no guy that im friends with guy has ever said they've tried a vibrator..
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so some are Assuming that he stuck it up his ass. :open_mouth: No one ever thought that maybe he just liked to use it on his head. :blush:
So y are u snooping in ur bros room anyway?? :confused: Does he snoop in urs and run around posting how u have colored panties and shit. Lol :grin: let the guy jack off in peace sheeze :scream_cat: -
I really doubt the type of vibrator you guys have can be stuck up his rear...