On average, I would say that I've masturbated once a day for the past 5 years (which seems like a lot over that period of time). I haven't varied my technique, or gone for long periods of time without doing it... and now I find that I can't use another technique, OR go long periods of time without getting off. Does anyone have advice as to how to learn how to enjoy different ways of being stimulated? I fear my g/f won't be effective at all >.<Thanks!
Masturbation - Psychologically Stuck!
Most guys are in the same situation, and yet when it comes to it they find their girlfriends very stimulating. So I think this is unnecessary worry.
The only problem I can see is desentization of the penis, especially if you've used a "death grip", a quite hard grip. Then the more loose vagina may stimulate you less than you're used to. Of course, the mood and setting, and having sex with an actual girl can more than compensate, but to some this is a problem anyway. If you get problems with this, abstaining from masturbation before sex for a few days may be a pretty good way to solve it in. Another way can be to not use a tight grip in the future, or even go all the way and purchase a Fleshlight sex toy or something. Many men having used that say it's far better than the hand (much more vagina-realistic) while at the same time "resenticizing" a penis a bit too used to masturbation.That people masturbate a lot is not unusual or strange on its own though, and many do it even while in relationships, and not always necessarily because the sex life is poor either.