well basically i need to end my relationship with my girlfriend and im having trouble thinking of the kindest way to end it, anybody got any help from experience or anything?I just wana upset her as little as possible because id still like to be friends with her after we just dont really work as bf/gf
Well you kinda just said it yourself.Tell her that you really like her and that you think she's great, but you just don't see the two of you working out as bf/gf. If you are truly sincere about wanting to remain friends with her then make sure that she knows you are.
Be ready for change, whatever it may be. Accept what is and be sincere. If you keep your heart honest, this is the best you can do.