Well i've made a few posts in here about me and my girlfriend having troubles with her friends, but we cleared that up. She told her to just stfu and get out of our buisness.But what's been bothering me is what she said maybe 2 days ago. For the last few months we haven't been able too see each other outside of school in about 3 months. Because we got caught up late on the phone, and her dad basically said we should stop talking and seeing each other for a while, we agreed and just kept to seeing each other at school.Well one day she comes to school saying her step dad had been calling me all sorts of shit. This pissed her off so she complained about it, aparently he hit her, but not sure. So we kept waiting.Finally a few days back my gf's sister brought me up and the first thing he says is "Don't mention his name, ashlee can never see him again". When she heard that she got sad, finally she got to tell me. Well what she said i didn't like. She said that if he keeps saying we may just have to break up if he keeps saying no. But i talked her into waiting until high school to ask (in one year) so it got ok for a few hours. Then as we were leaving school she said that if he still says no. She's probably gonna just break up, because she said it makes her sad that we can't see eachother much.I tried explaining that once we get into high school we can see eachother a whole lot more, hell we'll even know how to drive soon. But she wouldn't listen.Now i know she loves me, she was crying at the thought of breaking up. I kept myself up . . . until we hugged and said bye for the day. Then i just felt like crying, but i tried not too. But now i've gotten to where anytime i think about it i just breakdown and want to cry. Like every 10 mintues no matter what i'm doing . . . i just feel like shit.And i just don't know how to stop thinking about it. I love her more than anything, and so does she. But damnit i'm worried as hell . . . cause i pretty much know she will, cause her dad will say no for sure.Going on 4 days of constantly feeling sad. The only time i don't is when i'm with her.
How to stop it?
Originally Posted By: KamikazeAnd i just don't know how to stop thinking about it. I love her more than anything, and so does she. But damnit i'm worried as hell . . . cause i pretty much know she will, cause her dad will say no for sure.My advice would be to suck it up and go talk to her dad. If it's obvious that she's going to break up with you anyway, what have you got to lose? "I love her more than anything." TELL her dad that! Tell him that you really do love her, explain to him how you would never hurt her, that you would do anything to gain his trust, no matter what. I think he would respect you for it. And if not, he isn't man enough to realize what he's doing to his daughter. Plus, if things take a turn for the worse, what have you got to lose by doing this? It may seem a bit out there and may be extremely hard to do, but it sure couldn't hurt!And if you do end up doing this, be sure to include how you feel when you're not with her! Might get some sympathy points there, hehe.Well, good luck. Be sure to tell us how things turn out. Someone always cares.