My life... again.

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Same as last time - Life still Sucks. I'm still to fucking scared to talk to girls, i have a SMALL social-circle (like 3 Friends), Still feeling bad about myself, etc...

Try not to put yourself down. Three friends is fine - you don't get points for numbers of friends. Being scared to talk to girls is painful, but it doesn't mean you're no good. When you feel better about yourself you'll find it's easier to talk to girls too.Hugs

My problem is i'll never get over my fear of speaking to girls. 3 Friends seems fine and dandy some times, but then i see other people with bigger groups and makes me feel like i have hardly anybody, then they've got a whack of friends.

Three good friends beats the crap out of a bunch of superficial ones.

If you keep pushing yourself, a little bit at a time, you will eventually have an easier time talking to girls. It's good to have girls as friends, so you get into the habit of just seeing them as people.

Comparisons with other people often have bad effects. It doesn't really matter how you compare with other people, just whether you are happy in yourself.

You may always be a bit shy, but as you get more experience and self-confidence it will become easier to talk to girls, I promise you.

Ah just act like you've always know them thats what I do.if you think your life sucks look at mine instead it will make you feel better. I don't have anyfriends outside the internet.The girl I love is now 100% over me, and acting like a bitch and lieing to herself and me, she's like well I'm trying not to talk to you as much so you'll get over me because it's hard being your friend knowing you like me.But some how some guy that likes her that she won't go out with she still hangs with as a friend and says yeah well thats much different this is just playful love not the real thing and blah blah bitch.I have no friends, I lost the girl I love even as a friend, and gah nvm I'm tired of complaining ima gonna go sleep for long long period of time.but my life sucks to so don't feel like you're the only one being afraid of talking to girls might be good for you trust me.

[img=http://img02.picoodle.com/img/img02/7/2/1/t_DSCF0120i_9295m_5137ee2.jpg]If I may post a pic of me. (On the right petting the dog). I'll try and get a new ASAP, of just me. and Closer. x'D. I'm fucking UGLY. that's why I don't like talking to girls.

See that pic really bothers me, you remind me of a kid that we had some real problems with his father. ehh anywho, trust me there are plenty of people that look worse then you do out there and they got hitched.

Look if you don't have looks you gotta do something to make up for it. Like be kind or something. I dunno but trust me theres someone out there for everything *gags self* I'm just to damn lazy to give up on my ex even though I'm not trying to go out with her and I know she isn't ever going to like me again.

Just be kind and generous, it really does work.. most of the time. I'm probably the worst person to give out advice on this since it didn't exactly work for me but I had some slight disadvantages, like umm being 250 miles away etc.

I mean you know you look at these guys that are such assholes and the girls totally fall for them, it's not true. They act sweet and charming first, but it seems like that will stay with the asshole side in hope to see there sweetside again some day. At least with mine and some friends experince

Whatever you're trying to convey (and I'm not sure what, or how it helps the OP), it would be better not to hijack this thread.

I don't have anything to do in the winter. In the Summer, theres camping, biking, Baseball, etc. I'm not judging myself, its been said by MANY, MANY people. Even my parents are getting worried about me not talking to girls.

Forget about how you look. Leave it to the girls to make judgements, not you.