i have no idea what im doin, and it may sound so silly but i figured why not try. recently my girlfriend has started lettin me finger her, well the only problem is...i have no idea where anything is on her...i know its silly but i tried to find it, but i just couldnt and its very humiliating. and how do you know if she REALLY has an orgasim...its pretty easy to tell when a guy has one. i just want to make her have one. im pretty sure we all agree that they rock. plz help. P.S.- plus i dont want to attempt to have sex and not know where the hole is...