well yea. so ive been getting help from friends and adults with my self esteem issues. I dont have much confidence in myself. When even i want to say something i barely ever spek. the only people i speak comfortably to are my friends and people who i know well. Theres this girl i really want to talk to. im freakin killing myself inside. Im too scared and shy. I dont know what to do. I look at other people who easily spark conversations and speak to differentpeople so easily. I keep asking myself why cant i do that. why cant i just speak up like they can. I really want to talk to her and get to know her.
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No confidence
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Hi Thadius, it's important sometimes to move out of your comfort zone and do things that are scary or uncomfortable or unpleasant. Push yourself to say "hi" to her - that's a start. From there you can push yourself a little further to, say, a simple question, and then a bit further and further, as you become able to.
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i have the same problem man
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Welcome to A2A, bigproof. I think a huge number of guys have the same problem. So many people see other people apparently confident in themselves, and they feel much worse about themselves. But most of the other people are putting on an act.