Hello...hope all is well. I have a small problem and I don't know what to take of it. I am 22 years old, and I recently went to the doctor and got tested for everything and i'm clean and also checked my hormone level etc they said it's normal. The Urologist said it's optional to get a sperm analysis (does anyone recommend I get it)? ....but anyways here is my problem. I don't get as horny as I used to before. I don't know if it's because I have a lot of stress. I used to smoke a lot of weed back in the day (for like 2 yrs on and off) but I don't smoke anymore and haven't for 4 months. What I have noticed is when I am not with a girl, I don't get as horny and I don't really masturbate. What I mean by this, is when I have sex with a girl it's enjoyable and I cum but not as much as I noticed as before but I don't really masturbate. What I mean is when I do, it's a little bit and sometimes wattery but not a full ejaculation and I just don't get as horny unless i'm with a girl. Last time I had sex with a girl was about a month ago when me and this girl was dating and i've just been busy since but I know i'll get with a girl soon. I just don't get it...is this normal or what is going on? Also what I noticed is even when i'm with a girl, my dick isn't as long (it's still very thick) but long wise it's about 6 inches when it was 7 (when i'm with a girl), and it's even worse when I try to masturbate. Also, I go long and everything but I can't go more than once usually unless I wait for a while and sometimes I go limp into it but not usually...but anyways it has worried me and urologist says i'm normal and I can get a sperm analysis if I want. Any suggestions, I would appreciate it...thank you very much and look forward to suggestions.
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Question about not being as "horny" when....
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Marijuana infacts lower sex drive.and I dunno, I'm not as horny as I was last year I only masturbate about 2-3 times a week.
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Hi MrPolitical1, are you on any medication at all? Antidepressants, for example?
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Thank you for your responses. No, I am not on medication. I did notice when I used to smoke weed I could feel it would kill my desire because then it would be completely watery and I wouldn't be able to masturbate at all but now if I just do my work and stuff and don't see a lot of girls I just don't get as horny...I just feel this isn't normal and i've felt this decline couple years when I started smoking weed but I don't smoke anymore and i'm healthy now so I don't know what it could be? I do play basketball a lot, would lifting weights help increase the testerone rather than basketball? I just don't know what it could be and would appreciate all the help and advice possible. I deeply appreciate it.
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It may take a long time to get the effects of the weed completely out of your system.Hormone levels can fluctuate, and it's common for guys to have periods where they are less horny and perhaps have shorter erections, but things usually get back to normal in a couple of weeks. If yours is caused by the weed, it may take much longer - it can take many months for the cannabinoids to completely leave the system.
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I really don't think it is the weed...I think it is something else. I have stopped smoking for a long time and have been very healthy. I am 22 and i'm still young so I don't know why i'm like this. As I said, even when i'm with a girl my length has reduced 1 inch compared to before (not my girth) and it is good but I don't pre-cum like I used to so much...but my point is basically I can't really completely erect via masturbation anymore...I just don't get arosed unless when i'm with a girl..
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Has your doctor checked for diabetes? How is your mood - are you depressed or stressed or anxious?
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Originally Posted By: Thatguy12345Marijuana infacts lower sex drive.and I dunno, I'm not as horny as I was last year I only masturbate about 2-3 times a week. I dunno, when I used to smoke masterbating would be part of how Id end the night. Right when I got high Id get really horny, but perhaps I just conditioned myself like that because Id always masterbate after I smoked.
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Originally Posted By: MapleSyrupOriginally Posted By: Thatguy12345Marijuana infacts lower sex drive.and I dunno, I'm not as horny as I was last year I only masturbate about 2-3 times a week. Right when I got high Id get really horny, but perhaps I just conditioned myself like that because Id always masterbate after I smoked. Same here. After a while it went away, but the first several times I got extremely horny! To this day it still makes me a little frisky . To the original poster:Originally Posted By: MrPolitical1[...]now if I just do my work and stuff and don't see a lot of girls I just don't get as horny [...]but my point is basically I can't really completely erect via masturbation anymore...I just don't get arosed unless when i'm with a girl..As Ineligible is brining up, it may be something to do with your mood. From your comment I wonder: are you working a lot and is it leaving you tired and possibly stressed? On the other hand, guys start to settle down as they get older. Some weeks I may only masturbate once, while others I can't go a day without doing it at least once! Aside from all that, I am usually most aroused when I am with another person. Jacking off is good, but sex is by far better .
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Im with you on this subject, at one time in my past I was smoking a half oz a day. i smoked joints like it was a ciggy. I was still always horny, I was still out whoring around. I still smoke occasionally, and when I do me and the will be wife fuck like rabid minx. I smoked for years and years, and never had a drop in my want. Between thanksgiving and new years this last year I smoked daily, sometimes several times a day, I still never lost the desire for sex.In fact I think it enhances sex, or atleast it does for us.
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Nah maybe you guys didn't but in sex ed we have posters and it says on them it CAN lower sex drive. maybe I should have mentioend the CAN. but I don't think ti would enhance. Abotu your working out inquiry that wouldn't be a bad idea, you would be in better shape anyways.
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Quote:In fact I think it enhances sex, or atleast it does for us. mhmm same here. when i get high i get super horny. so does the bf. but im worse i think