Okay, I've posted a bulliten before about making out. (Same girl) well...she dumped me. she said it was cause we were too serious? We never even made out. (Thanks 4 the advise though) anyways she went out with this other guy THE NEXT DAY!! and he dumped her not 2 weeks later. I was the first person she called. Now she acts like she still loves me and I know I still love her but I'm so damn confused I don't know left from right! I really want her back and the way we talk i think she does too. I asked her to take me back and she froze up. she said she loved me but didn't want a relationship right now?? So...do I persue her or give up. I mean I love this girl. I know it sounds weird, but since I've realized this, I don't masturbate, I can't ever think clearly, all I ever hear/see is her name. I LOVE her. And i scare myself sometimes thinking that I actually want to lose my virginity to her?? (Altough I promised myself I wouldn't untill I'm at least 15 but that's not my point...) Any help??
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Is She Playing Me? PLEASE HELP!!!
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- You're not in love. I promise.2) Grow some balls and tell her to piss off. If she truely "loves" you and wants to be with you she can put the effort in to prove it. If you take her back now she'll only treat you like crap again.3) If you reject her I can promise you she'll want you even more, string her along for a bit and see how she enjoys it.Sorry if this is hard, but it's late, I should sleep.
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It sounds like you're being used as a cuddle bitch.
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hahha, u like linking to that dont you?
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ineligible summed it up, besides you or I couldn't even comprehend love... most have difficulty with it in their twenties let alone early teens.
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Listen, I know a lot of people think I Don't love this girl. And I know that she'll probably fuck with my heart again. But I can't stop. It's like a drug. Just hearing her say she loves me...it's all i crave. We ARE back together, by the way, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. And to the Arnold Swartzenegger guy...STRING HER ON? What kind of sick prick are you? I don't "sting girls on" or "toy with them!!" Jeese...you whack off a lot don't you? ...Figures...Ps. I'm sorry to all of those who probably think I'm an idiot now. But if what I feel when I'm with this girl, or even just looking at a picture of her, ISN'T love, then I'm hopeless and need to blow my brains out right now. I really love this girl. I'm sorry...? I don't know what else to say.
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Originally Posted By: Ineligible
It sounds like you're being used as a cuddle bitch.
What's scary...is I think there might be some truth in that...(But I know she's not sexualy active...so there's no fuckbuddy-arch-enemy-thing going on)
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im in a similar situation...different in some ways but with the same kind of she-devil. 4 words.
stop
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if some big asshole shoves you and you dont do anything, you feel like a pussy, right? and you feel ashamed, right? Well this is basically the romantic equivilent. This girl is making you look and feel like an idiot. Fuck that. Tell her to go fuck herself. Nobody who messes with your heart is good enough for you, no matter who you are. Get over her and find someone who will love you for you and who you feel comfortable with. Thats what im trying to do.
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That's exactly what she's doin to you bro. She's playing you. She dumps you and then goes out with another dude the next day. Hmm, it's not rocket scientist, it's simple really. That's where the youngness comes into play, or whatever you want to call it. Sometimes it's hard to take in the truth, and truth to this is.. you two are too young to know what love is. Puberty is in the wings for you. But I do understand age is just a number, and that you simply have feelings too.Matter of fact, I'm not going to say what I was going to say after that line. I re-read your post again. And how in the hell could you take a girl back who stepped in dog shit, rubbed it in your mouth, was out done by someone she actualy liked, and now is calling you back for a rebound? You got to remember this, love is a strong word that is overused in todays society. That's why I never use it, and never will, unless it's certain situations. Think about it for a little. Just think about it.
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from what you say, you wouldn't know love if it spit in your face. and trust me, the person spitting in your face does not love you, and you do not love her. its not a one way street. i can say i love you, but you wouldnt believe me; she treats you like garbage so why believe her bs?
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I know where all of you guys are coming from. about how I need to kick her ass to the curb. Don't doubt me, I've thought about it. But it's so weird with her. I'm her best friend. Her ONLY friend. See, in our school, its pretty much nothing but, rich-bitch, asshole, "Like oh my gawd," preps. And she WAS one of them. But when she met me, (the "little emo fag" as those preppy kids call me), she realized those people weren't her friends. she's lost everything. Or anything she thought she had.(friendships, parental security...) To me, if I "get rid" of her...she'd lose the last thing relatively good in her life. and it doesn't help she's in a legal battle with her parents. (Mom has custidy, dad wants it. step dad's a jackass...you know how it goes.) Is there any other advice someone has. BESIDES dumping her? I know I may not LOVE her...but I have very strong feelings for her. At the LEAST ...kindness would be appreciated...
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it seems as though your with her because you dont want her to be alone. like, you dont want to leave her because your afraid that she wont have any friends or anything?
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arright from what you say now, you are her one remaining friend. and you want to be with her until she makes more friends? if shes not gonna like you like that you need to accept that, its not easy (if it was you wouldnt have the problem) but a true friend would care unconditionally, whether she wants to love you or not. romantically tho, its a whole different story, if you keep making unwanted moves she might distance herself.
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Ok, this will probably be my last post-reply-thing on this subject. BECAUSE i've realized that I'm worried over nothing. WE really do have a special connection that can't be broken. This IS love. regardless what you other people may say. I really do love this girl, and I'm not just saying it. I'd appreciate people who were positive, and respected my decisions, not those who feel they need to point out my age and ramble on and on about how I don't really love her. SHUT UP AND KEEP IT TO YOURsELF! (Before it was helpful. now that I don't care what you say about this subject, please refrain from nagging me about it.) Peace, and even the skeptic people helped alot. Thank you.