Is it ok to ask her?

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Ok well me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 2 years now and were talking about sex the other day when she said that she prefers a man to be shaven.After this discussion i went home and decided to try shaving. All i can say is what a mess, cuts etc. After putting this down to first time i decided to try again , and once again no luck.Does it seem reasonable to ask my gf to help me , i mean i am purely doing this for her and so far its causing me pain =( but i don't want to ask her if its inappropriate ?!

First off how are you shaving? What are you using to shave with? Are you using shaving cream? Electric razor/trimmer? Give us a few details. You will have cuts and razor bumps b/c your skin is not used to being shaved. It depends if you should ask her if she is into shaving other people or not.

Razor , tried both with and without shaving cream.
I have tried 3 times so far and i don't think i want to make a 4th attempt.

Are you trimming the pubic hair as short as you can before using the razor?And electric razor is easier for the base of the pubic hair than you can use the razor to shave the rest off... though do not use an electric razor on the testicles, can be very tricky and end up bad, just use a razor CAREFULLY and SLOWLY to remove the hair on the testicles.

If she is really into her partners not having hair down there, then she might get pleasure in helping. With her knowing that you are doing this for her could get her to want to help you out. After all, it is for her.

It will take some time for your skin to get used to it. Use the trimmer to get the hair as short as possible then go over it with an electric razor.. once you are used to that use the blade to get it really smooth. To shave your sack go slow and carefully b/c you don't wanna cut that

Since you 're a beginner you need to use scissors to cut 80% of the hair. Do that for a month, THEN use a razor.
Nothing wrong with using a razor, of course, but for the first few times use scissors and just trim your pubic hair.
(advice from the expert)

An electric razor works perfect for me. Definatly makes you feel more secure down there once it's all said and done. You got to be careful though, use the regular razor on only your balls, because the electric can snip a little. Just be careful and it's all good.

some tips include using shave gel (cream may dry it out... real attractive), one blade razors because more than one blade is intended to cut beneath the skin, possibly leading to a rash, using acne preventing solution on the area to prevent an outbreak and most of all not going at it for too long. if their is a somewhat short hair, leave it alone, dont beat your skin to death. you can always trim it down or cut it tomorrow.

I heard that Shaving public Hair Causes Intense irriation when done unproperly. Also, in theory Trimming the hair would turn your lower ambdomen into a wall of painfull spears. [if you catch my drift]

Ok, I can't give you advise on how to shave it since I am a woman lol. But I can say that you can certainly ask her to help or for her to shave it. I would suggest you do it successfully yourself first, so you can guide her.I am saying for her to shave you cause it can be a very erotic experience for both of you. I know my bf loves to shave me, and it is very pleasurable for both of us. You also ask "is it inappropriate ?" well, you have been with her for 2 years, you should both know each other, you must have an idea on how she will react. Also, what happens between 2 consenting adults is very appropriate as long as they both feel comfortable.

Originally Posted By: ShadowmageSince you 're a beginner you need to use scissors to cut 80% of the hair. Do that for a month, THEN use a razor. Nothing wrong with using a razor, of course, but for the first few times use scissors and just trim your pubic hair. (advice from the expert) if yo usue scissors doesnt it itch?

Ok well after all the advice i decided to ask her , i asked her yesterday and she already had the suspicion i was going to ask her. I guess all is well that ends well.To let you know she was a lot more gentle than i was and made a way better job than i think i could have.Turns out it was quite an intimate experience for both of us, definitely something i want to try again, am very glad i asked .

I think I would just have to tell her than I'm a man, and if she would rather date a little boy...well...good luck.But that's just me.

I think this is ridiculous. If it hurts and your cutting yourself, why bother. I don't shave my armpits or my legs everyday and I definitely don't shave my pubic area. I do trim though, but that's it. Any guy that has a problem with that is just going to have to man up.I'm sorry, I guess it's just not for everyone.