Alright well its a long story but hers how it goes I started dating a girl we will call her (A), now We kinda had a fling, nothing really happened due to her problems with her mother, which I will use later anyways. So ebcause of this, also I had a feeling it was just wrong to go otu with her, I ended things with her. So I of course talked to ehr after, and she would constantly give me like an attitude, so I stopped for awhile, let her cool off. So I talekd to her again not to logn ago, same thing, she also has a new "boyfriend" of course nothing will happen because of her mother. Anyways so of course she throws that in my face. And now I told (A) to just talk to me normally, things spiraled, I confronted her about making up rumors, then she said all the girls in ehr school hate me, I ask fornames and they add me to a big conversation in MSN. All they do is call me ugly (Kind of weird considering she went out with me, and I dumped her.) They put words in my mouth calling me a, wanna-be gangster, sorry, I dont shoot people and I talk as an intellectual. They called me stupid, and racist, and I apparently claimed to have had sex with over 20 girls, which is ridiculous, so you know all lies. So anyways I then told her that I would use every comment and I could send it to the director of her school (strict catholic school) and tell her mom some of the stories (A) told me. So of course she says more, and then she realisez im serious, so she shuts-up, and now I got her other friend to ebcause she was in the large convo, so basically I got a lot of leverage here. My question to you is, what do I do? Do I talk to ehr Mom, send it to the Director of Her School? I know I have them sweating.
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Bullying
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WEll At First maybe, But Right now its the other way around, I told them and they are at my knee, I've gotten 10 emails in the last 20 mins, and havent responded to any, they are obviously worried, but I'm wondering of my next step, do I send the records in, and talk to (A)'s mom?
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It's almost like your asking for it by continuing to talk to her, just let it die already. You broke up with her, so leave her be. She'll make the next move if she wants to talk to you. Don't talk to her mom, Don't send it to the director of her school. That's extremely immature and won't do you any good in the long run. Let it be man, just let it be.
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Well.. let them know you have the upperhand. But I wouldnt do anything.. just leave it where its at.
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immature? Facing my problems is mature, I know if it gets any worst then I'll send it in but I guess for now I'll leave it.
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I'd just leave it, unless you want to start some major problems. It would just be a big mess if you sent it to the directer and to her mom. Not to mention you're not going to win yourself any points for doing it. Granted she shouldn't be talking crap about you, but there's no reason to try and get her seriously in trouble. People talk, eventually they'll move on and get over it. If they are actually really harassing you, then I could understand turning them in. They're just being immature and you're just in the middle of it.That's just my opinion though. If you really feel like turning them in, then fine. I just think it's kind of ridiculous.
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You've shown them that you are pissed off, so just leave it and move on. If you are continuely harrassed then you should go tell a friend of a friend or something. But by the sounds of the insults they are being immature and petty. Just leave it. Ask them if you lot can turn a new leaf and move on.