Its a tricky one: what would YOU do?

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alright heres the situation...i was circumcised at 19 about 2 weeks ago and hav had some time to just chill and talk on msn. well, befor this happened i was kinda hittin it off with my exgirlfriend who i only went out with for a few weeks about 2 years ago. we had made out a few times and she gave me one handjob to my uncut dick during a drive so she never even saw it. talkin on msn i can tell she wants me and im thinkin bout hookin up wit her for a bit (after im all healed up of course!), tho im not sure if this relationship will go very far. thing is that i had the circumcision done very discreetly, told only my parents and dont want anybody else to know (even my siblings). i have a couple of friends that may not squeal to others about it, but i wouldnt trust anybody with this info. tho i doubt that this will works, do you think i would be able to pass off that i had always had a circed dick and that she had just imagined it? I would trust this girl not to say anything while im with her, but if we broke up i believe she would tell others about 'the change' (didnt end on good terms last time). personally, i think if people who didnt know me well and heard that i had an adult circ through the grapevine would think that this is odd and that im odd for it. i think id probly be laughed at behind my back sort of a thing. thats why i want to keep it on the downlow. anyway, if i wasnt in this situation i would def start seein this girl again. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

GIRLS...if you heard a dude was circumcised as an adult...would you look at him differently? turn you off?

GUYS...im not dumb to the fact that many dudes would make a big deal of this and id end up bein the butt of many jokes becuz of this, tho im sure thers many mature guys who wuldnt

thanks for the responses

I don't think it matters at all. Tell her, she won't care. Don't tell her, she won't know. My question is why did you do it? I'm genuinely curious.

I wouldnt worry about it at all.

It's not 'odd' or anything, but it is personal information that doesn't need to be told to anyone unless you want it told. Would it make a diffrence to me? Not a bit, it was something you felt you needed to do, so who am I to stand in the way?

I wouldn't care. I Wouldn't look at him differently, and it *definitely* wouldn't turn me off.

I don't think it is a really big deal. As far as the girlfriend thing goes, I doubt that she would even notice.

Is it possible that you have judgments about your decision that others just won't have? Or that someone close to you might have a negative judgment that you're projecting onto others?I don't mean to sound all psycho-babblish. I'm just thinking that, if others knew (which they don't have to), you would find that they just really didn't care. Or at least beyond the curiosity or wondering how you're doing.I had a friend in college - about the age you are now - who made the same decision and was pretty open about it. Not broadcasting it, mind you, but most guys he talked to knew. I remember sitting in the lounge in the dorm and him making jokes about how much pain he was in. But I don't think anyone questioned what he did or why. It just was what it was.I too am curious why you made this decision. I have a feeling that if I weren't circumcised as an infant, I would probably have made a similar decision.