Second base issue

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So this evening, my girlfriend and I got as hot and heavy as we've ever been yet, and I already had my hand on her breast and she showed no signs of her not wanting it. So I tried to go up her shirt but I was stopped by her bra. I didn't want to look like any more of an idiot so I retreated =/. I was just wondering how I'm supposed to get there. Am I supposed to just flip the bra off her breast or unstrap it or what?

If you ever encounter a tricky bra just get two hands under the straps on either side, pull them apart you and just lift the bra straight over her head like a shirt. This probably wouldn't work only large breasted women.Otherwise just practice and learn, they're normally hooks so just pinch them together they'll pop off.Edit: Hrmm, thought you were asking how to undo it. Should've read more closely. Doesn't matter what you do, although I'd imagine a tight bra might be uncomfortable if you flipped it up into a different position.

He just got under that shirt, not it off. Although, if he could get it off that'd prolly be easier.

If she happens to have a lowcut shirt, try reaching in from the top. If not, then try reaching towards the strap in the front and slide your hand down. Going from the bottom of the bra never really works well. The best, of course, would be to remove the bra altogether, if you can.

easiest thing to do? go behind, find the hooks, and undo it. it's especially easy with two hands, but i find that sometimes it's hot to be able to do it with one. keep it in mind ;-)

if you can come from behind, make sure to keep it as not-awkward as possible by occupying her while you're back there fiddling with the hardware.If you're looking at it, or facing the same way she is, you'll probably be able to unhook it with one hand. with the other, brush her hair off her shoulder and kiss your way from her jawline to her shoulder. Most girls find this extremely sexy. Good luck and remember- nothing beats practice!

I tend to find that most girls are not really that impressed by adeptness at unclasping bras. If you're still in the exploring stage, and you fumble a bit, there's a decent chance she might find that cute.And I agree, practice makes perfect. I now enjoy annoying my g/f by unclipping her bra through her shirt in the middle of the mall and such.And yeah, i know this thread's a bit old, but I'm bored.

dont know if anyone will read this,but since im a girl, i will tell you.just unhook it in the back, it savesa lot of awkward stuff from happening. :]

This is something of an old thread, but unhooking the back can be frustrating AND embarrassing until the guy figures out how.If a girl does it for him, YAY for him, but he will never learn...lol

I have a question so I'm just gonna add it to this post. What are you supposed to do at second? I mean, what do you girls like the guys to do? I'm afraid it'll be weird for my g/f if I have no idea to do!

Originally Posted By: imasavagedont know if anyone will read this,but since im a girl, i will tell you.just unhook it in the back, it savesa lot of awkward stuff from happening. :] not always, friend!when i was in college, i finally got a fine young lady to my room, kissing all over her face and neck, hand up her shirt, other hand on her sweet ass. i pulled her up and turned, so she was sitting on my lap, and ran both hands up her back, caressing as i went and got to her bra. reaching my hands together to undo it, i could not find the clasp! i just looked at her "what the hell?" she smiled and pulled her top off, "it hooks in front, dummy!" i had never seen a front hook bra!

I had to practice with my gf's bra.. I don't know how many times I tried working with that thing on her.. Me being 18 heh.. She thought it was cute :P

Yep, I can almost guarantee your girl will think its adorable that you're fumbling with the clasp on her bra. My girlfriend still either teases me while I try to do it, or does it herself to show off how easy she can do it. On most back-clasping bras its like snapping your fingers, as in you put your finger and thumb on opposite sides of the clasp and bring your fingers together. This brings the hooks away from eachother, and you can just drop them. If you do it right.

However, in our early exploring days I simply slipped my hands under the cups of the bra. Maybe you should try that if you dont feel like trying the hooks?

All my ex's wore Back clasps or Sports bras. My last Ex though had those hook in the front ones. I remember the first time we were trying to fool around I didn't know what the hell was the matter. There was no clasp! heh, then by the time I got around to seeing it was in front I couldn't undo that because it was so different than ones in the back I was used to. Just...that was an ordeal. She made every opportunity to laugh at me about it from then on, and excuse to demonstrate my new abilities Heh, good times.

I suck at it as well. Usually she just does it, and she laughs when I'm unable to get it. Damn things suck.

juss do what i do... pull down the part of the bra that the breast is in, the part that goes over her nipples and such, and let her beautiful breast pop out, unless she has REALLY big breastest, this shouldnt be a problem... but yea, its the best way as well, because all she does is pop it back in, and shes Good To Go... like a taco bell burrito...

Alright, the boyfriend & I just got to this stage about a month ago, & went through something similar. I'm a C-cup, & when my boyfriend hit that problem, he did flip it up & over. I wouldn't call it uncomfortable, but if he had undone it, it would have been more comfortable for me. After that day, though, I've stopped wearing bras on dates, lol!As for what to DO in second, I think it should come natural for men, since they've got that unhealthy obsession with our luscious chesticles. For me, when we make it to second, it's ALWAYS a thrill, since he's the first one for me, just seeing him together with my girls gets me excited! I also enjoy sucking, licking, etc. If you do this, though, make sure you don't just latch on like a baby, get creative, swirl your toungue, etc. Hope it helps!

I normally just pull the ladies bra off like a shirt, but she finds it sexy to undo it one handed.