hey im an 18 y/o bi guy and im scared of rejection. i gues it might be down to the insecurities i had about my sexuality when i was younger. it might just be to do with my past history of shyness! but iv changed! i am more confident now and this is something that i realy want to clear up. i have never had a gf or a bf! i think i stil have this stupid fantasy of meeting 'the one' straight away and living happily ever after! can anyone help me try and overcome this? please help
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Fear of rejection
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Id say the best thing to do is to prehaps be more subtle about your intentions. If you like a particular boy/girl spend time with 'em, get to know 'em, have fun with them. Chances are they will make it plainly obvious if they like you or not.
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Welcome to A2A, ihatepuberty! I agree with Max, start by getting to know people without expecting too much.
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thanks for the replies and i will take that into consideration guys! the main problem would be starting something though. i don't have the guts to go up to a girl i always wait for her to make the first move, which doesn't happen very often. any advice on that matter??
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Start simply - say hi, and ask her how her day was, or something like that.