Last night I had sex for the first time and I was just reading on how to properly use a condom and one thing I found was that immediately after ejaculation you should pull out.. Um, well I didn't because I was ashamed of myself for it happening so quick. I was preoccupied that something with the condom would go wrong like break or something. So anyways, is the main reason for pulling out immediately afterwards for the sake that most people become flacid afterwards and the condom could come off or maybe additional thrusting could make some of the sperm leak out? I'm not too worried about it, but I am definitely concerned.
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Condom question
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Originally Posted By: Frost3done thing I found was that immediately after ejaculation you should pull out.. Um, well I didn't because I was ashamed of myself for it happening so quick.Don't be ashame if you ejaculate quickly. Honestly, it's no big deal. And if you want to last longer, do a search because I'm more than sure you can find some solution here.Originally Posted By: Frost3dSo anyways, is the main reason for pulling out immediately afterwards for the sake that most people become flacid afterwards and the condom could come off or maybe additional thrusting could make some of the sperm leak out?Basically, yes. You NEED to pull out after you ejaculate while you are still hard. Do not wait until you become flaccid because the semen can leak out and/or the condom will slip and then you'll have a bigger problem to deal with.
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Well I couldn't help not being so. I was only thrusting like for 20-30 secs and I could feel myself reaching the end. Might not have been a big deal if we had another condom to slip on. So much for the first time being nice...So anyways, you think that it was fine that after I first ejaculated I stayed and thrusted a little longer? I was still hard and they weren't very powerful or fast thrusts as I was still worrying that something with the condom would go wrong.
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Originally Posted By: Frost3dSo anyways, you think that it was fine that after I first ejaculated I stayed and thrusted a little longer? I was still hard and they weren't very powerful or fast thrusts as I was still worrying that something with the condom would go wrong. No, that's not fine. Like I said my first reply that you needed to pull out and remove the condom. If you keep on thrusting after you ejaculate, you have a chance of either breaking the condom or having it slip off. Next time, have some extra condoms handy.Did the condom slip off or break? Did you check if any of your semen spilled out?
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well I didn't mean fine for future encounters, but what do you think the chances are that some sperm got out of the condom and into her vagina?
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Did you check if the condom slipped off or break? I can't give you any probabilities because I don't know all the factors.
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Well it definitely didn't slip off, I didn't go flacid until like after I got up from bed and threw the condom out and maybe another minute passed. I sort of looked at the condom for breaks.. Would it be really obvious? I didn't notice anything. Is there a method to check after your done for a rip?
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Normally, if the condom breaks it's quite obvious.
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Okay new question, today my girlfriend and I went at it.. twice. One the second time, we stopped at about 35mins into it and when I was going to take the condom off, I noticed a whitsh fluid at the base of the condom on the outside. I didn't ejaculate a second time, but is it a possible that maybe all my precum just like.. overfilled? Or did the lube of the condom change colors... maybe it was even her? I also masturbated like 4 hours earlier before this. What do you think it is and if it is sperm or pre cum... pregnancy chances? I always feel so paranoid
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Probably her secretions, or the lube on the condom mixed with her secretions.
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Originally Posted By: Frost3dI noticed a whitsh fluid at the base of the condom on the outside. I didn't ejaculate a second time, but is it a possible that maybe all my precum just like.. overfilled? Or did the lube of the condom change colors... maybe it was even her? I also masturbated like 4 hours earlier before this. What do you think it is and if it is sperm or pre cum... pregnancy chances? I always feel so paranoid If you didn't ejactulate during the second session, then the white fluid was probably her. Precum is generally clear and I don't think lube changes color (which is also clear).So if you're really sure you didn't ejaculate, chances are she isn't pregnant.