arggghhhhhhhhi HATE my family....i dont talk to any of them and they dont talk to me, its not like i dont try to talk i phone i text but they never reply or answer!the only time i see them is at xmas or birthdays or whatever, i have my immeadiate family...mum bro and sis, as i live with them, and love them sooooo much!... we have our arguments but.. everyone does!however things have ONLY JUST got better with us, as my stupid complete idiot alchoholic abusive bastard of a step dad finnaly moved away with another woman, leaving us alone ... which is possibly the best thing thats happened in my life!but my other family...nans, uncles, aunties, grandads, all that lot... ARGH i reallllllly HATE them, its like...i cant explain, if your not 'in with them' your not part of the family...your not liked or anything, and my dad???... well hes like a par time dad, decides when he wants to be a dad and drops me and my brother when he cant be arsed!makes promises and brakes them, although i learnt long ago not to trust him, but my brother does...and it hurts alot when you see him get all excited as we are suposed to be seeing our dad and the way he gets all let down and stuff...arghh!!!!hes only 15 and wants to spend time with his dad....just dads an idiot! and a waste of space!my stepdad is my younger sisters dad, but he has obviuosly moved and she doesnt see him, but my mums allways been a 'do it yourself' kind of mum, you know the 'dont need a man' type!single mum.... and shes allways done a fantastic job with us!but im worried that her dad will come back, you know, and want to see her again...shes 9 so fully understands everything!!but i realllllly dont want him seeing her... (i dont think my mum will let him...but i still worry) i dont want him doing to her what he did to me.he never did anything remotely horrid when he lived with us, but he allways treated her better because she was HIS child!so.... i forgot what else i was going to put... sorry for the rant!!=]
Family's a bitch!
Wow, sounds like my daughter's story...Or, a bit of mine passed down to her.You grow up, decide who your family is going to be. It seems, that there are alot of folks like you/us who aren't close to their families.I only posted because, it had been a long time since I saw this part of my family, and did the "NOW I REMEMBER why it's been so long"....My Father couldn't get around us but he has turned into a wonderful peice of my life, my mom and stepdad are pretty cool people, and I have an aunt...my siters, bro, and many of the rest are either "non existant" or just pain in the butts, talking behind backs, and telling you how you should live all the time...I found people who love me for me. Flaws and all. My boyfriend calls me Ed ALL the time, but appriciates the Edishness in me...It is good for many a laugh.Good luck, you will do the same. Create a family! It's the best!
You two arent the only ones. Im not really close with any of my family... and I live in Kentucky, where everything revolves around redneck voice yer kin!!!!!! My extended family doesnt really even try to relate to my immediate family and Im not involved with anything I dont have to be with my immediate family.P.S. Just remember that friends are gods way of apologizing for your family, and that if necessary, you can always hide away at their house if things get really heated... Ive had to.