Ahh help why is this happening?

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Ok so i got circ a moonth ago and im really pleased it looks really hot before i got it done i was already sexually active with my gf an i lasted usually 30 min everytime i had to try really hard to finish...but now 1 month after i got it done im back an having sex again but im finishing in like 2 mins now ;/ im trying my hardest to not finish but im becoming a minute man now ?i thought u lose sensitivity? why am i finishing so fast? an what can i do to last longer?;( i dont even want to have sex anymore right now cause it sucks when we only do it for a few mins

give it time. your not completely healed yet and youve probably gotten real horny. one thought--if you cum so fast you could probably do it again after a little while.

true i can do it again but i dont wanna go 2 rounds lolit takes a bit of time to recharge an by that time my girl isnt turned on anymore an she doesnt wanna do it anymore ;(i used to be amazing like 30 mins ;(

she always want me to hit it hard ;(but now when i do i finish like right away i cant even satisfy here anymore

thanks man, ive tried oral a few times though an she doesnt seam to dig it

A woman who doesn't like oral? You have one in a million me-thinks, lol.

Seriously, look around and read up on some articles here and around the internet on different ways of giving oral sex; or if you have $12 to spend, go out and get "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner. I absolutely love his no BS approach, there is something in that book to get ANY woman off through oral.

u know whats really crapy?

is she told me she has never orgasmed except once an that was when she was drunk she said ;(

sometimes i wonder if i could satisfy this girl cause i have never made her cum

Women's testosterone levels increase a lot when they are drunk, while men's don't, so women tend to be considerably hornier when they are drunk.

I second that :P

it kinda sucks at times though :frowning:

breaks out notebook...get girl drunk everytime you want her to cum.Got it.Thanks Pete

Always glad to assist.

yah i know but i dont really want to get her drunk..;( its sadcause we are making love now an i want it to be special...she moans an seams like she is really into but never comesim getting really depresed about it now,i dont feel like having sex with her anymorefeel like im not satisfying her enough even though she says i do, she doesnt cum!?!?!? what kind of bs is that?!

Originally Posted By: takumi10she moans an seams like she is really into but never comesim getting really depresed about it now,i dont feel like having sex with her anymorefeel like im not satisfying her enough even though she says i do, she doesnt cum!?!?!? what kind of bs is that?!If it's not broke, don't fix it.Call me crazy and maybe it's just my belief, but just because she doesn't have an orgasm doesn't mean she isn't enjoying sex with you. If you keep focusing on just making her orgasm, then you'll miss out on the other things that make sex enjoyable. If she does what you say she's doing, my guess is that she's having a good time.She says she's satisfied, what else do you want? Isn't it your goal in the first place to pleasure her? If you keep on complaining that she isn't having an orgasm, I can almost guarantee that you're going to cause her to feel bad also. Maybe she will have an orgasm someday but stop pushing it so much and just enjoy your time with her.

thanks star your the shiz!lol an i know but i dont feel like im giving herwhat she deserves, i feel like maybe im too small? or im not good enough ? that i cant satisfy her an she cant cum

Lol, thanks.But don't sell yourself short. If she's feeling good and you treat her well, then you are more than good enough. I don't have any new ideas in trying to help you last longer and help her reach an orgasm, except just give it some time.