i've seen a few posts here latley about girls having sex with their guy no condom, protection. i just can't help to wonder why? are the girls scared to ask him to wear one or is he just a punk? i'd just like to say if he isn't willing to put on a condom he's not worth keeping as a bf. A true real boyfriend will respect his girlfriend and wear a condom if she asks him too. or maybe it's just me.
Why do girls do it?
Oh man, you aren't the only person to wonder why.are the girls scared to ask him to wear one or is he just a punk?That's two of many, many reasons, all of which are stupid. All excuses range from "It doesn't feel as good" to "We were drunk".A true real boyfriend will respect his girlfriend and wear a condom if she asks him too. or maybe it's just me. Such true, golden words, my friend. And thankfully, you aren't the only one. When I met my current boyfriend, not only did he insist on the condom, but took a STD test as well.
There is a gammit of reasons. Sometimes girls are more worried about pregnancy than std's and if they are on b/c then they think nothing of it...That emotional attachment is a huge thing too...Many girls who start sleeping with a guy figure he is gonna be the one for the rest of her life, and are willing (to the unknown) to deal with an std since, "he is the one". Pretty sad, but so true sometimes.I remember being young and invincible...Std's were the least of my worries. My 1st and I only used a condom the 1st time. Then I went on the pill, and it was all over. But we DID talk and I was his first, and he mine...So I guess the risk was pretty low. But yeah, with all the partner changing, and the games...IDK why for sure girls don't require it!!
I think a lot of girls are afraid to ask a guy to wear one, especially if the girl is the younger of the two.
But yeah, with all the partner changing, and the games...IDK why for sure girls don't require it!!
This here is the main reason I'm a virgin right now. People don't hesitate to stick it let someone stick it in. And I don't have the guts to flat out tell a chick "yeah.. suure he was clean" or "hey lets get you tested".. But, in all honety with all things going around these days..
I know being a virgin doesn't gaurentee you won't have anything.. there are other ways to get stuff however, its alot more difficult to catch something if you are a virgin.
In honesty I am flat out bothered by the fact people are so stupid.
On the radio I herd a survey that 60 percent of people (women included) thought you could avoid pregnancy by "Jumping" up and down after sex. A nother notable amount of people (these were women only and probably more then 50 percent) thought that vigerous cleaning of the vagina area after sex would inhibit pregnancy. I wish I could find that chart.. its sad what some people believe.
Gunna make it alot harder to have relationships >.< I don't want to hold what people do against them.. on the other hand.. its risky behavior..
*Edit Good topic to the OP. I agree 100%. If your man won't sheath his sword toss him to the curb. Also I get annoyed with everyone.. they can use the most illogical reasons to justify anything.
I know alot of older guys who dont use condoms. They say they feel "dorky" wearing one. ppsssshhh. Its the dumbest thing ive ever heard.