ok well pretty much a yr ago my bf n i thought bout doing anal..but once when we had the opportunity.. we had no lube.. but me being the idiot ..i was like ok lets try it w.o lube and if it hurts then we'll stop.. well we did it n like 5 sec of it going in i told him to take it out..it felt like my asshole tore :S does that make sense?? n it was burning like crazy!!.. so pretty much for a week or so it would continue to burn.. n then we figured we try it again.. but b4 we wanted to.. i kinda had to check if everything was ok down there... n nasty ass it seems there was a lil cut.. and im pretty sure if anything the cut/scab would open and burn again like crazy.. now a yr after.. well i broke up w. my bf.. but we kinda had anal today... n i was scared at first that that scab/cut would still be there.. and it would burn again.. well he went in.. n it burned like crazy but this time i held the pain in for like a min.. n then told him to stop.. cuz it burns like crazy.. n now even if i go take a #2..sorry lol... but is this normal..did i pretty much scar myself for life by not using lube the 1st time.. and what do i do about this scab/cut..cuz when i came home.. i saw that there was blood on my thong from down there.. n it continues to burn..its like 2 yrs.. its like that....what do i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Anal!! but it burns :S
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HAHA.. punkinhead
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snickers
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guys i want to know what i do with the cut...
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btw if we didnt use a condom.. nothing will happen right?!whats punkinhead??
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Originally Posted By: Gizellebtw if we didnt use a condom.. nothing will happen right?!Huh? Honey, a lot of things can happen if you don't use protection when you have anal sex. Always use a condom!
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omg!!!!!! can you elaborate what can happen
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he took it out after like a min or so though n he didnt cum inside or nething.. just so u kno ..if thats why you say that.. if not tell me !! ahhh
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You or he can get a nasty infection. And you can catch something if he has anal sex with you and then penetrates your vagina. That is why you must always use a condom.
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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh can i do nethng so it wont happen!
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Use a condom.ADDED:Here's a piece of information you should read:The vigorous thrusting that may occur during anal intercourse can tear the mucous membrane. This can develop into an anal abscess that can become infected - more about that in a moment. Also, if your partner has any of the sexually transmitted infections (STI's), then you could get infected through the tear. So we are talking about gonorrhea (treatable); venereal warts (treatable if external, difficult if up in the rectum); syphilis (treatable); herpes (treatment, no cure); yeast infection (treatable); and HIV and AIDS (treatment but no cure.) You do not want any of these STI's.Information from: Talk Sex with Sue: Anal Sex
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thank you.. i think im gona have a heart attack though lol ahh
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Gizelle,Sorry to hear about the pain, but I agree that you should be more careful. My suggestion is if it hurts, find a different way to explore your sexual desires. Don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to do, even a boyfriend. I have heard many risks involved with anal sex. I don't want to scare you, but they can include rectal cancer, hemroids (check my spelling please), pain during bowel movement, bacterial and viral infections, even loss of bowel control. Anal sex is the leading cause of the spread of STIs in America. For these reasons, even though I identify myself as a gay guy, I choose not to have anal sex.