Omfgawd help me, i'm scared
**ok, so i'm a virgin, i want to have sex, but as it says in the tital i'm scared. my friend who just recently had sex said it hurt like hell, and that makes me more scared to do it. my boyfriend is not a virgin and want to have sex with me, but i'm scared. i tried "popping my cherry" myself so it wouldn't hurt as much when i had sex for real, but when i tried it hurt alot, so i stopped.
help me please
:fearful:**
Welcome to A2A, Dollfayce!
You shouldn't have sex just because your boyfriend is pressuring you for it. The first time it can hurt a bit but it shouldn't hurt a lot, but I get the impression that you are not really ready for it, and there's no reason to be in a hurry.
i was like that before i lost my virginity.. and in my opinion when its with someone you love and care about its worth it.. and as far as hurting goes.. its more of an uncomfortable feeling.. not so much as a hurt.. but you can feel it.. and it doesnt hurt enough to want to stop.. so if you can imagine that.. it doesnt hurt much.. haha
I remember when I first joined A2A, there was a girl who was in the same exact situation you are in. I was trying to look for that post so you could read it but I couldn't find it. So, I guess I'm going to have to type what I can remember.If you are so scared of sex, then DON'T HAVE SEX! It's that simple. It's pretty obvious that you're not ready, therefore you should wait. And if your boyfriend is pressuring you into sex, you need to leave his ass now. Lossing your virginity because of pressure is a sad and unfair way to lose it. I can guarantee that you will regret it later.Honey, you have NO IDEA how many things you aren't ready for when it comes to sex. I'm not just talking about pregnancy and STDs/STIs, but there's also relationship issues, emotions, being informed, responsibility, and regret. And if you're tripping over something as small as pain, then you're getting into something that you have no clue in.And how long have you been with this guy? Is your relationship ready for something like sex? If you get pregnant, will he stay with you or bail on you? Will he leave you for a better piece of ass the next week or does he really love you?The bottom line is this: You are NOT ready at all, whatsoever.
in the end i guess i'm not readyi mean, i want tobut i'm not ready,i talked to my boyfriend about it, he says it's ok with himcause he's 3 years older then mehe says it's my choiceif i'm not ready, he says it's perfectly finei really do love him, we've been together for almost a year and a half so ya thanks for the info
my gf and i had sex for the first time together today she was a virgin i was not and we had to stop because it hurt to much. she said it felt like jabbing the dull end of a shovel against a muscle for the pain she felt.
ok i know all of you said that i'm not ready for itand i said i wasn't,but in the end i wasyes thats right,me and my boyfriend had sex,we used protection and i'm on birth control nowmy boyfriend told me he loved me yesturday to and welli guess we sorta areyou were right it was uncomfortable but that doesn't matter anymorecause i just went for it
