As many know, there is this site to meet people called hot or not right? Well, I've never actually accepted someone's request that lives in the same area as me until now.He's actually a townie like me and goes to Notre Dame - a year younger than me actually, even knows a few of the same people that I know, but I go to Saint Mary's here in Indiana. We may have even passed each other earlier on and never know it, but he started talking to me on hot or not first and then we exchanged aim screen names, etc. I've only had one really long conversation with him, and that was last night until almost 4am.And today he IM'd me, too. We got numbers then. That's about twice that I've talked to him and he just asked me to lunch tomorrow since we'll both be on campus, and even before lunch, he asked me to go to the fair with him this week without even meeting me yet, lol.I don't know...I'm kind of nervous, but even though we have talked for this short time, it feels like I have already known the guy for years, without meeting at all.He doesn't seem like the type of guys that I've had previous encounters with, though.It's just that I've had bad experiences meeting people online previously, not extremely bad, but bad enough where I thought this wasn't necessary that I meet them anyway.So far it seems okay with this guy.The other bad experience that I had was meeting this other guy through myspace. If we hadn't talked first on myspace, I still would have met him anyway because he was in my summer class, but he turned out to be a douche and I don't think I would have bothered talking to him had I not talked to him first on myspace.Not sure how this will go...but I was just wondering if any of you have had any good or bad meeting people from online experiences and would like to share them?
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Kind of nervous...
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yeah i hope he doesn't want to get in my pants either, lol. that's been so incredibly annoying lately with guys who do that.good thing he has a facebook that he added me too so i checked him out. it appears he's a good guy, so i hope he is one. he says he's looking forward to the lunch tomorrow, haha.i've also talked with one of my friends who goes to the same college as him, but doesn't know him. she thinks it's ok to meet him, too.
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my cousin met his girlfriend on myspace, it was weird he was the shyest guy ever and one day POOF i was gone for a week, come back and hes like dude i met this girl on myspace yadda yadda yadda and a year later there still together!
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haha nice. man, the funny thing is, i actually got rid of my hot or not addiction from before because i hardly ever check that site, but i only got back on one day because i was bored and got a message from him. and i figured i'd get on again to see what's up.i don't know, i mean sometimes, really 99% of the time i can't tell if a guy likes me or not -- i can tell if they're just saying it and all. but with everything this guy's been telling me. i actually think he may like me even tho we just started talking, lol.for me, if i want to look for a relationship, i've realized that i can't date anyone around my age or a little bit older because everyone so far, all they have wanted was to get in my pants. i don't think this new guy's intentions are like that at all.but all the people i've met so far that are like a year younger than me, they've grown up and appear more mature from the hooking up stage that people around my age and a little bit older are still in.i also noticed that every guy from town, if they don't go to ND, all they want is some booty so i told myself i'm never gonna give another townie who doesn't go to ND another chance because 100% of the time, it's always been like that.and for some reason, any guy I meet at ND, has always stuck around as friends and just not "leave" the next day after they meet me cuz they didn't get exactly what they want, heh.where i live at least, all the guys that I've met who are townies around my age or older, if they appear somewhat interested in me, just want some booty, i don't know if it's like that anywhere else, though. i've only met one or two older guys who weren't like that, besides them. they're all the same here.
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That's like a whole new culture, ya know. I'm totally not into meeting people online. If they're behind a computer meeting people, theres a reason behind it. This world is too broad and there are too many people to see to be typing in a profile, and hoping someone will think you're "virtually" cute. I believe in meeting people the good ol fashioned way: ya walk up and say hi.
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lol i don't really meet people online, i just did this one time for the kicks since he's on campus same as me. i've only met two others in my life through the Internet and those didn't turn out so well.but i actually just got done having lunch with this dude and wow, i just acted like he was a long time friend that i knew. i didn't think we would have many things to say but i guess we did.i don't really like meeting people from online either. not sure about him, though.
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I was very nervous meeting my boyfriend. I drove us, and we went to the skating rink. I didn't REALLY want to talk to him either, he found ME on Myspace. I figured he was just another loser looking to get into my pants.I ended up talking to him, for oh, about a month, then we met, and about another month and a half we talked on the phone and hung out a bit as friends...then BAM! I have a great one, and have NEVER been happier with ANYONE! I'm into saying hi too, but this one snuck up on me, and came from a VERY uncomfortable place, and look at me now. YAY!
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so i've been hanging out with that guy from online now for the past two days for pretty much 7 hours both days. we went to the fair yesterday and today. we also went bowling today. whenever we go out we go dutch, too. the first day i did not make out with him we just hugged 'n stuff. it felt like we were hanging out as just friends then.but tonight, well, after the fair and bowling, we were just sittin' in his car for a while talking. and finally we made out ((i hate to say that he's a biter, lol)). and then tho, it felt like i was dating him. u think it's too soon to ask what he wants?every time i'm online, just about, he's the one that always IM's me, and mostly calls, too. i actually don't mind and i like that about him. i don't think his intention is to get in my pants, but i'm not sure if he just wants to be friends or maybe start dating eventually. when do u think would be the right time to ask about this, like wait some more to see what happens or the next time we hang out? i'm not sure. i get confused about dating, etc.