Today, me and my girlfriend broke up.I have to admit that I thought I loved her. But in all honesty I'm not sure if I did as I haven never had a serious relationship with somebody until her. I've been with girls on and off but I have never stuck with somebody as long as I did with her.She finished me kinda out of the blue.Anyway, my question is this.When it ended I didn't really feel that bothered. And it has sort of freaked me out because like I say i thought i loved this girl, and I haven't ever felt the same way about her.Is there something emotionally wrong with me? Whats it like to be in love, because I think I don't really know.Sorry to seem all whiny about it, but I feel quite conflicted on the inside about the issue haha.Your thoughts would be nice.
Whats wrong with me?
I think it's hard to asess the situation without knowing you much better. It may be that you never were really in love with her; or that you fell out of love; or that you have an unemotional personality.
If your honestly unsure of wether or not you loved her, then you probably didnt love her.
I might be young, but i honestly can say that i have _loved _once.
I think its when all odds are against you & you still feel that it is 100% the right choice. Your willing to give it everything you got. & when it comes to fighting, your willing to work things through no matter what the costs.
Thats just my take on it, though.
wow, dude, this just happened to me too, like a month ago, and i felt the same. i accepted the fact that she broke up with me and everything, and i did love her, like, bot to be cheesy, but in a way i never had before. i didnt seem all that bothered by it, but i guess, its just how you tend to accept things that happen to you, that influences how stuff like this happens. like ive been thru a lengthening surgery(for my legs) have to be in a wheelchair, adapt to everyday life, stuff like that. and im fine with it. so if you(meaning in general) can accept things as huge as that, not to brag about me or nething, you can definately accept things like this without breaking down. Hope this helped!!
Thanks for everybody's help. I know its hard to give me advice without knowing me too well, but I came to the conclusion that I didn't really love her.Even though it felt like it at the time.