me and my boyfriend of over a year just broke up. Im devastated. I dont know what to do:(
aww pink..what happened?
Sorry to hear the bad news. :frowning:
It just wasnt working and we were fighting like crazy. I told him that its best if we dont talk for awhile.. that it wont be easy for me to be his friend.
im sorry to hear that, i hope everything works out for the best!
Good one. Real funny, asshole.
How was it a joke?
Aw, I'm sorry hon, you know how to reach me if you need to talk/vent/whatever *hug*
Things dont always work out as you expect, youve just not met mr. right quite yet...
A woman I'm good friends with was going through a lot of stress. Her mom had a stroke and she was having to deal with all of that on top of being a single mother. I listened to what she had to say for a while and made a comment
"It's all so simple. So simple people don't even realize it. Eat, drink, breathe, warmth."
"I'll tell you about that later. Let's go out and forget about all the crap we worry about in our daily lives. Just go out and have no expectations. How about I take you out to dinner? I've been craving Japanese anyway."
We're in agreement and we go out. We went to a sushi bar and talked about little nothings like observations we've made. We ate, snuck a drink in there somewhere, and had a chocolatey desert at the end. Afterwards, we headed to a local coffee shop, conversed for a while there, and then went to the car so I could take her home.
Sitting in the Car...
"Are you hungry?"
"No. We just ate silly!"
"Okay. Well, are you thirsty?"
"Are you comfortable? Do you want me to adjust the AC?"
"No, I'm good"
"Are you breathing?"
Smirk "Yes... I am breathing."
(She knows me too well and knows where I'm going with this by know)
"Well, you're not hungry, you're not thirsty, you're comfortable, you're alive and breathing, and based on that little grin on your face I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you're having a pretty good time."
Big smile "Yeah, I guess I am"
The point of that night was to show her how the simple things in life can make us happy. I wanted to point out that most people forget about a lot of the good aspects of their lives and concentrate on the bad. We shouldn't ignore the small things as if it were insignificant.
So, Pinky Winky, you know what to do. Do the things that you've done almost everyday of your life. You're beautiful, young, and full of potential. Live it up girl.
I wanted to point out that most people forget about a lot of the good aspects of their lives and concentrate on the bad. We shouldn't ignore the small things as if it were insignificant.Wow, I've been doing that for the last few weeks now. Since I moved out and new hard times were ahead of me, I started to appreciate the simple things in life that people take granted for.Every morning when I drive to work, I'm happy that my car is running and doing well. I know I need to get it inspected soon and get an oil change and all that, but I don't have any money to spend at the time, so I'm grateful for every day that I make it to work.I've definetely become grateful for the free sandwich I get at work. I used to complain how we only get a 6", but I've realized that I could also have ntohing (and it took a couple times of being hungry and not being able to eat for at least 24 hours to start appreciating my free sandwich). So I'm happy for that.Things like that. People don't know how good they have it until it's gone.
If only I could some day figure out how to put thoughts into writing, you would probably be amazed.Anyway, I'm a fucking dumbass. I didn't even get my free sandwich at my 2nd job today (I dunno why, doing too many other things and only realized I never got my sandwich before it was too late and we had put everything up) and I'm off tomorrow... it's going to be fun to not eat for 48 hours!