Just wanted to share a reallly happy moment

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well, i saw him..we hugged a shitload, he kissed me. twice. but last night, he told me he was in love with someone else, someone that doesnt love him back..but hey atleast he was honest?

That sounds a bitter disappointment.

yeah, but im used to it

well duh lol, i told him i didnt mind. we're cuddle buddies, i guess thats what il call it lol

lol thanks, that made me smile

i have 2 guys that like me(that i like back) that randomly, out of nowhere told me..the one from this post(lets call him B) and another one thats ive also liked for a long ass time(il call this one z). ok, so we know that B is inlove ith someone else. he doesnt work or anything, hes going to court in a few days over stupid shit, he has like 50 other girls that like him and several fuck buddies and cuddle buddies that dont want to do him(myself included) but hes a nice guy. now Z is pretty mature, hes an absolute sweetheart, i dont think he does drugs or anything and he only smokes cloves(i think, that could have changed since i havent actually seen him in a while, il get to that part in a minute) he used to be a bit of a whore, but not as much as B, and im pretty sure he wouldnt cheat or anything if i were to consider this. the only problem with him is that he's in the navy..he works as a chef, and hes barely at home. i didnt know this untill a few days ago when i found him on myspace because i guess after he left we lost contact. but i think he comes home for a few days every few months, but hes supposed to be going to japan soon for 3 years, and he can come home once a year. im not looking for advice or anything, im probably not gonna bother with either, i just want some opinions

I think Z sounds like a real problem in that he's not around and must obviously be older than you. Just my opinion, but it doesn't sound like a good idea at all to get into an absentee relationship like that.And B really doesn't sound very good for you if he's so involved with so many women. You seem like such a nice person; I think you deserve something better.

hah, im too nice. but me and z were actually thinking about being friends with benefits(without the sex)whenever he comes home(hes visiting this month) and i care about both of them, but since the day i met B ive wanted to make him happy and help him clean up his act ..hes had a pretty shitty life, but hes a good person. i know we most likely wouldnt work out, but i dont mind being his "cuddle buddy" because since i dont have a boyfriend, its nice to just sit there with someone you care about..and its nice seeing him smile. thats basicly what Z wants too, but he's probably gonna wanna get all sexual(which i most likely wont allow...maybe fooling around a bit, but thats it). id rather be in a relationship with someone, but this is nice for now. i dunno, im really just looking for opinions

lol helms, thanks..but im really not looking to get into anything serious with either of them

theres no way in hell that i would ever do that, i still have some self-respect lol, i appreciate the advice though, thanks:)

ok, now me and Z have a date next friday, B hasnt really talked to me since sunday..and now theres another guy, and im not even gonna getr into detail with that one...lets just say i wouldnt touch him with a 10 foot pole... but where the hell are all these men coming from?? seriously, in the past 2 weeks ive had 5 guys chasing me..i mean wtf, why now all of a sudden and why me? ugh. this is really getting on my nerves..but yeah, i just thought id give a bit of an update

Must be hard. How do you deal with it?

are you being sarcastic? but either way i honestly dont know, but its pissing me off...im used to having to work to get a guy to notice me

Just date em all. no sense in limiting yourself