Am i normal?

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my bf and i have just started dating but i know that soon he will want to feel my boobs and stuff... the only thing is is that when i feel my boobs to see wat ilike and wat i dont sooo i can tell him i feel sick in the stomache. Is this normal? am i meant to feel awkward and sick?

i had a hard time understanding your question (im pretty out of it so that may be my problem not yours) but what i think you said is when you feel your boobs you get sick to your stomach? This is not normal atleast ive never heard of it. My advice would be to consult your doctor on this issue.

...what's the question?

I think she means when she tries to find out what she likes and doesn't on her own so that she could tell her boyfriend when the time comes to talk to him about it, she feels sick to her stomach because of the fact that she's talking about it? And she wants to know if it's normal?My advice would be that if you really wanted to talk to him about it, you should and swallow your nausea. Though there may be some psychological reason behind your disgust, I don't think the point is to find out what it is unless it is something absolutely important, but just speaking about something, I'm pretty sure you can get through independently.

If you are correct, then my thought would be that it's all in her head, and not her physical body. And if she gets "sick" from touching her breasts, then she's obviously not ready to go that far with her boyfriend.Just because she has a boyfriend, doesn't mean he has to feel her up so quickly. She needs to accept her body before she allows anyone to accept it also.So, I believe it's not a matter of being "normal", but accepting your body as it is.

i am so sorry about all this confusionwat i was meant to say was...am i normal because whenever i explore my breasts i feel awkward and not very comfortable?

Originally Posted By: gorjus sugaam i normal because whenever i explore my breasts i feel awkward and not very comfortable? Looks like katonsuiiton was right, heh heh.In that case, I still stand by what I said earlier. It sounds like it's all in your head. You still need time to learn and explore and accept your body in all its glory. I suggest that you don't let your boyfriend feel you up until YOU feel comfortable enough with yourself doing it first.

ok thank you soo much... ill keep that in mind!

I don't think that you are going to have to worry about telling him how to do it. When it happens, it will be in the heat of the moment and he will just fondle you.You may feel sick in your stomac, maybe because you are nervous about it, idk.After it happens some, you can tell him what you like better, cause someone else hands feeling your boobies is different that feeling yourself up. You only have to feel it and enjoy when someone else is doing it.

There is no need to be so formal! Please, call me Tony.

"Hey Tony! I like the things you doooo... Hey Tony! If I could I would be youuuuu. You're the one and only tiiiigerrrr with the one and only tassste. You know how to make a breakfast and make it GRRRRREEEAATTTTT. Frosted flakes are mooorrree thannnn goooooooddd THEY'RE GREAT!"sorry I couldn't resist

lol; it's okay - everyone does it when they first meet me x.x

Lol @ Abi. And Tony it is.