so I believe my dick and erection are fine, except for the fact that for some reason my dick feels a tiny bit numbed (not sure why, but perhaps from a showergel I once masturbated with). I can get a full erection that is full size and is hard, except for the ridge that runs along underneath. I don't believe that that part now ever gets fully hard (even when I'm very aroused), because of the numbness there. It stays softer and does not get stiff like before while the rest of my boner is completely normal.
btw, I've been to the doctor twice about this and the first time they told me it would go away within a week along with the rash I had (and the rash went away), and the second time I was told it was nothing. I do plan to go again since this it has been quite a few months since this problem suddenly appeared.
now, what I would really like to know is would this affect any sex I might have, and more importantly any relationships, with girls. Would this really be noticable to girls and is it something that could break-up a relationship? (like ED does). I really would like to know that now as this is a question that has been bothering me even more than the numbness itself. Personally, since my erection is hard from the top and the sides, I would think it is "good enough" even though that bottom ridge might never get hard. but is it?