Ok so for this i need to give some background to the story so please bare with me.My boyfriends step mom (lets call her "Lisa") doesn't like me and she can pretty much assume i don't like her cuz i try to avoid her at all costs. When i go over there i at least say hi and i smile but i still think she doesnt like me. Ok the other day i was talking to someone who sometimes goes to the place "Lisa" works, and i was asking this girl if she knew who "Lisa" was and i even said her name and she said no, then i went on to describe her and the girl said she thinks she knows who she is. And then i went on for a minute calling "Lisa" a great big bitch. and then the girl really didn't say much after that but i realized how big i just messed up. What do you guys think the liklihood is that this girl will tell "Lisa" what i said? Cuz if "Lisa" found that out she would force me and my boyfriend to break up, and he would get in so much trouble. I don't know. Personally i wouldn't go up to someone i really don't know and say "hey, this person called you a bitch", but that's just me.
Hard to say what the probability is. A lot depends on exactly what you said, and also on the character of the girl you were talking to. It obviously wasn't a wise thing to do, but what's done is done.
I went on for like a minute that "Lisa" just bitches all the time when she is at home. And the girl i was talking to , well i don't really know much about her to be honest. She isn't one of those people that just blabs about everything to everyone tho i know that.
Sit around and see if it comes back to you, then deal with it?
For next time... if you won't say it to their face, don't say it to someone else.