Anyone else feel uncomfortable posting here?

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Do unto others as they do to you...Not to say that is the reasoning of my behavior but what you are speaking of is what happened to many others I know. I seem to recall no one getting banned for what happened to you but I was promptly banned after doing so.But I ask is making another post for that person useful? Does it solve anything or does it allow for a dumping grounds of "crap." It is called the internet, have you not heard the country song. I forgot the name but I am sure someone will dig it up. It is the mods job and simply PM'ing the mods and admin about it would be sufficient but to start a thread one needs to expect a lot of trash from the past to be brought forth. It may be dated but it is still relevant.

handcuffs.....whips.....and glitter......oh my....chanting

I totally do not understand what you are trying to say. She asked if anyone felt the same way she does....how would pm'ing a mod answer her question?

He's trying to say that this thread is bound to drag up "the past" so why start it? If someone is bothering her, she should complain via a PM.

She asked " Anyone else feel uncomfortable posting here?" not 'So and so is bothering me, complain, complain.' I don't get it, but whatever.

Ya that is all. I just for saw me and possibly others saying something. I just stated that of course other people do. Unavoidable.

_Anyone else feel uncomfortable posting here?" not 'So and so is bothering me _

I think it's implied that the subject is "Anyone else feel uncomfortable posting here?.... _because _so and so is bothering me" without saying the so and so. LOL

no one is going to like it….. I tried my best to lay down and get this off my mind but it’s not working. I just can’t do this anymore. This post may start a war….. That’s exactly why I didn’t want to do this but it’s driving me mad. Ask Pete it’s giving me a fucking headache. I’m tired of hiding…. I’m sick of it. I’m not going to be afraid of pink anymore.! Pink all that you pasted about SS is exactly how I feel about you. Instead of me running and to Pete I’m telling it to you. I admire people like chance and SS that don’t hide and say what is on their minds. For once in my life I’m going to be like them. You say don’t bring up the past, people bring up the past to latter bite you in the ass. The past is what makes some of us afraid of the now. Unlike you I chose to stop reading your stuff. I dk why you can’t ignore SS…. I don’t care. it’s between you and him. This is between you and me. It really has pissed me off that you have a post pretty much putting everything onto SS. Like all have suggested . Ignore.. ignore.. But u chose to fight with him. I just like you to know it don’t feel to great does it? I know you wile denied…and deny cuz that’s what you do. You hide behind a PM system… You may have forgotten how you treated me but I can’t. you treated me much like how you say SS treats you. Every time I have made a post expressing anything about my rape you have some snobby commit to say. No one every said shit to you until I begged them to make you stop. I dk if they did (and one big mistake I made was going to helms) I dk if you stop because I chose not to post about my rape anymore (from FEAR of you) . I know you don’t care what I think of you, I don’t care what you think of me, but we can both agree mean and hurtful snobby words hurt. (it’s ok if you don’t agree…) I just wanted to be upfront and stop hiding…. Roll your eyes or call me names, I don’t care (prove to me you’d changed) It’s time for me to stand up and be a man and say what I feel…. Much like SS and Chance do.Chance sorry I used you name…… but I do respect you dude for being so blunt and saying what you got on your mind. p.s. even tho u (pink) and I have butted heads… You have gave good advise. (so had SS)Please don’t take this as a go at you.. it’s just how I feel. Like you I too feel I can’t post what I really need too. Unlike you. My reasons is well anyone that took time to read all this knows now. Maybe I need to find a forum where i have no fear.

sorry? no need to be. you didnt talk shit on me, you spoke some truth and used me and an example, for something Iv been proud of my whole life, standing up for myself and speaking the truth, or atleast the truth as I see it. Use my name in that manner any time ya like.

I totally understand what you mean. But I can't even remember a time recently where I have gone at you for that.. because I know how you feel. there are things that have happened to me very similar that have happened to you that no one knows about.. the only "person" i told.. was my blog.Thing is.. I've changed since I did those things to you.. im not the same person I was when those things happened.And I do apologize for hurting you in the past.. when you said you were leaving because i was sending you PM's (that time u said u were leaving last a few weeks ago) i was more so.. wtf'ish because i havent sent a PM to anyone in a very long time and definetly had not been sending PMs to you recently. So i am sorry for hurting you

I think we need a group hug...Lets all put the past behind us and move forward in a positive way.

Hey buddy. I agree with Chance. I'm proud of what you said, and wrote how you feel. I know it was difficult. You did a great job.I'm sure things will be better now that all the cards are on the table. Agree to disagree is okay to do...

You actually suprise me Pink.IV seen the shit you did to Cr and Iv seen hwo other peoples hsit had affected you and couldnt see how you didnt ever realize that you wree doing the same shit.I guess you did see it, you just didnt say much about it before now.Its a good sign as to what kind of person you are when you can see your own fuck ups and learn from them.

Quote: I do apologize for hurting you in the past.. And I accept your apology.  Quote:when you said you were leaving because i was sending you PM's.... At that time I felt damion had put a big ass knife in me and rippe dit from my head to my toes as deep as he could. tho i made my peace with him and we're cool now.and yea i had been feeling thsi way a long time but the question you asked was my opportunity to be upfront with you. I was really worried it would start a war. i'm GLADE it didn't.  Quote: i haven’t sent a PM to anyone in a very long time and definitely had not been sending PMs to you recently yes...past not recently. you haven't sent a PM (to me) since the boards changed over. Sorry.. It was a misunderstanding cuz I wasn’t meaning at that on the spot time. But yea.. Let’s throw it out the door and march forward. I dk about anyone else but I feel better.

Holy shit...what did I miss???

Can someone create a "catch bmoc up on the latest" thread??

....ahh what the hell, since I'm here I might as well tell you the best way to get over your anxiety about posting here...

1. Don't give a fuck what people say -- opinions are personal, so they're going to get personal.
2. don't give a fuck...
3. see 2.
4. if 3 doesn't work proceed to 5.
5. don't give a fuck, and post how you feel, when you feel, someone out there will relate and you two can talk about the best way to resolve it. You can either make a post about it, or you can silently PM every person on the board asking the question until you're either: A) found out...or B) in touch with someone who can help.
6. Don't give a fuck.