Confused and need answers.

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I'm not asking for a diagnosis expecting you people to know everything my doctor would. But I honestly don't have the time to go to the doctor in the next two weeks. Because my mom is leaving town tonight for a week or two, and i work every weekend.okay, So i started my period on March 19th, in the evening (this is a Wednesday) and we had sex a few times, i didn't keep track, but it was a week before, and 2 weeks before.It faded away 4 days later. (my periods are pretty irregular. and some last 7-8 days, some last 6-5 days. its really hard to tell. but they usually come within a few days of when i think it will.ANYWAYS, so Wednesday the 26th we have sex. and Friday the 28th we had sex twice. Saturday we have sex, again. Sunday no sex. and before the sex i'd give him oral or handjobs. Oh yeah, unprotected sex BY THE WAY. he did not CUM in me, but he sure as hell did precum. And pregnancy in my life, is not a major problem... I'm just wondering, not worried, not stressed, curious is all.What my chances are.- i never stress. ever.- worrying does not = stress (in my case)The period that i just had, could it have been shorter for a reason? Last night i was feeling really sick and gross.I'm not saying because of the sex i had THIS week. I'm not that dumb.I'm saying what about before my last shortened period?the period was normal the first day.and after that barely any came out.And then it just like, stopped. SO so so confused.EDITS:when i did have my period last. i'll describe it better.the first day. very normal.second day, not normal at all. Only a drop on the pad the size of a quarter maybe a quarter and a half. The next day, just brown sticky crap. and not A LOT of it, just about the amount from the previous day.

and before the sex i'd give him oral or handjobs. Does he ejaculate when you do this?

sometimes, yes
sometimes no.
But he came REALLY REALLY REALLY close when he didnt.

sometimes, yes And then you have unprotected sex? Then that is really dumb... leftover sperm in the urethra can and will get you pregnant, one of these days.If you don't care if you get pregnant (since you are doing above the above), then why don't you just get a pregnancy test and see?My first kid came about from what you are doing.

Originally Posted By: sdp sometimes, yes And then you have unprotected sex? Then that is really dumb... leftover sperm in the urethra can and will get you pregnant, one of these days.If you don't care if you get pregnant (since you are doing above the above), then why don't you just get a pregnancy test and see?My first kid came about from what you are doing. I know i will when i can get out to a drug store, etc.I thought i still had one i could use, but i guess not.I used to have some just in case. but they're not there... oh well.Anyways, I don't know if I should wait and see if i miss my next period?Or if i should take one soon as i can.

Quote: Anyways, I don't know if I should wait and see if i miss my next period?Or if i should take one soon as i can. It all depends on how soon you want an answer. The test will be most accurate after the first missed period, but some will pick up pregnancy 6-8 days after conception.With what you are doing, if you're not pregnant now you soon will be.

i'm aware of that.but.I'm not sure if anything the time i had sex BEFORE my last period.or if it'll happen during my next periodif that makes sense.I dont know how to word it

What?

Originally Posted By: albeitmyself

Are you saying that you've had a period since the last time you've had sex?

if you impregnated you would not get the period immediately following the sex, and you wouldn't get any other ones either. (Although some bleeding can happen in the pregnancy, it's not a real period).

PS: Changes in your period timing and flow are quite common since you're still young.

No i had sex . got my period, or bled
for 2 days.

then had sex starting 5 days after i started bleeding. and for 4 days straight after that had sex.

Once you had your period, it can be sure that sex before that did not impregnate you. The sex after your period is another question. You were approaching your most fertile point, so there is a chance that the sex led to pregnancy but probably not. A pregnancy test is the only answer. You can't solve this problem mathematically.

I'm confused as hell, so I'll just type what I think you said.You had your period on March the 19th and you had sex. The flow lasted four days.Are you asking if you're pregnant? You could get pregnant while on your period, but the chance is low. But you won't know for sure until your period in April.But now I see you're asking about your last period. Yes, periods can vary in flow. It happens. Sometimes it's three days and sometimes is can be seven days. But it doesn't mean you're pregnant. It's all just hormones.If you want, take a test.

Originally Posted By: Virtual_StarI'm confused as hell, so I'll just type what I think you said.You had your period on March the 19th and you had sex. The flow lasted four days.Are you asking if you're pregnant? You could get pregnant while on your period, but the chance is low. But you won't know for sure until your period in April.But now I see you're asking about your last period. Yes, periods can vary in flow. It happens. Sometimes it's three days and sometimes is can be seven days. But it doesn't mean you're pregnant. It's all just hormones.If you want, take a test. Nonono. lolsorry for being kind of not clear.I meant is the reason my period was soooo short (2-3 days) when mine are usually a week long and heavy. really heavy. because of the sex BEFORE the period? could that have anything to do with it?And, i'm aware of the sex after the short period i have to wait 1-2 weeks and such.Cuz it wasn't normal colorit wasn't the normal textureit was weird

Lol, thanks for clearning that up. I'm a slow-minded reader. I read somewhere that having sex while on your period may help with cramps. But because you had sex before, I'm not sure if that theory applies to your situation.I'm going safely stick to what I posted earlier, about how periods can get wacky. The flow of your period may change here and there. It may be because your hormone levels are unbalanced.As far as pregnancy goes, I wouldn't link a lighter period to that idea. But because you're having unprotected sex, I can't completely rule it out. I think a test would lift a lot of wondering off your mind.

It might not have been a period, it could be a rare first sign of pregnancy.

Starting yesterday there has been a bloody/brownish discharge.Not a lot.Just a little. i woke up this morning and it started again.Also, starting yesterday i had cramps in my lower abdomen, but i don't get cramps on my period so idk.And starting yesterday i had food cravings.I ate more than i usually could. Like double the amount.Should i be concerned?

Brown discharge is normal during or after a period. It's old blood. But you said your period was about two weeks ago. You may be experiencing spotting, but I can't say for sure. Have you tried taking a pregnancy test?I think a trip to the gynecologist is in order.

i was gunna get a preg, test with my friend today.Then if it says anything. I'd have to talk to my mom about it.ha, the convo she's been dreading since i was able to talk.

Well, I hope things go in your favor. Good luck!

thank you, a lot!