Swollowing??

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ive been with my girlfriend for over 4 years now, at 1 stage she used to let me cum in her mouth but she ALWAYS spat it out, id love her to swollow but she says its disgusting and wont even let me cum in her mouth now, even getting her to give me head is getting difficult.i just wont be able to have a good forplay with her but she wont swollow at all, i just want to see her do it onceam i being selfish?

you can't force someone to do something they don't want to do, if she doesn't want to swallow or suck you then that's something you have to deal with

What's the big deal if she doesn't want to swallow? It's not exactly like swallowing sweet popsicle juice. I know it's a way for you to feel accepted, but don't push her too hard. Maybe that's why she doesn't want to suck you at all because you expect her to swallow ur cum.

What does swallowing have to do with anyones pleasure.

i dont understand either sdp. swallowing it wont change how it feels physically its just making her want to do something she doesnt want too.

It's not being stubborn, it's called drawing the line. I know the harder someone pushes me, the more I don't want to give in.

Well I dont think it's over the line. Some guys get extra pleasure and a sense of "pride" from a girl swallowing his cum. I actually know a guy that dated a girl strictly becuase his friend said she swallowed.However if the girl isnt comfortable with it, then he definately shouldnt pry. They should talk about it as a couple. But if he was used to going in her mouth even if she didnt swallow & then she stopped sometime during the relationship ... that kinda sounds weird. He was used to doing that and then it quit. There's certain stuff you can eat that makes it taste better. My advice would be to talk about it as a couple & try to come to an agreement that helps both parties...

thanks for the replysive tried speaking to her but she dont want to know.also when we first met we did it all in diff positions and blowjobs were always on offer but 4 years down the line she only wants to do it in 1 postion and refuses to give a blowjobs sumtimesdont get me ive NEVER forced her to do anything she didnt want to but our sex life has gone down hill and she dont wanna talk bout itideas?

It sounds to me like she's just not interested anymore. It may be hard to get her interest again since you've already tried talking to her and she didn't want to listen. I dunno. Try roleplaying, or some light bondage.

well if you really want her to swallow and it is such a big deal then when she's not around jack-off ans cum in something she drinks that could cover the look of your cum like milk or something that way everytime you see her drink the milk or what not then you can get your thrills knowing she swallowed your cum. sounds to me you want her to swallow for your pleasure and not hers....maybe you should be more focused on what pleases her

first off, everyone should be willing to try something once. try talking to her about why she doesnt like to. was it a bad past experience? also try making your cum taste better by adding more fruit to your diet. also, do you reciprocate most girls are a lot more likely to do for you if you do for them.

Okay, hero, answer this: after you dump a load in her twat, do you go down on her? Creme pie, anyone? Maybe showing her that eating your own come isn't so bad would persuade her to someday try it. Then again, maybe it won't. Either way, what does it really matter is she does or if she doesn't? Not to brag, but my wife and previous partners have had a hard time getting their mouths around my cock, much less sqallowing a mouthload of jizz. Not that it really matters, you see, as the act of swallowing should not define a relationship, sexual or romantic.

Someone else mentioned a good point, though. Changing your diet will make your man-goo taste better. Guys who eat junk food and drink beer and soda all the time have nasty, flat tasting come, whereas the health food nuts who eat a wide variety of fruits, vegetables, meats and other whole foods have quite tasty come. I have had both and would definitely take a healthy fitness-conscious fellow over a sedentary couch potato anyday, and not just because I would like the body better. Healthy splooge is much mosre palatable than the alternative.

My wife gags when I shoot too close to her mouth when screwing her tatas, but she enjoys knowing that she was the one who pleased me to that extent.

I would suggest you don't let it get in the way of a good relationship. If it's good _and_she won't swallow, maybe she ain't the right one for you.

My $0.02

The question you haven't answered--or even been asked--is whether you go down on her. I'm a 40-something guy among (mostly) young folks on this site, but I'm kind of unpleasantly amazed at the number of young guys who regard blow jobs as an entitlement and the number of young women who seem to accept that. They aren't--they're a profound act of love and the woman bestowing it is entitled not only to set her own ground rules but to get the favor returned. It's a guy thing, one I share but don't quite understand, to want women to swallow our semen. My wife doesn't like to--she'll spit out the first spurt and finish me off with her hand. End of story--I've just had a great orgasm and the fact that my semen is on my belly instead of in hers makes no difference worth stewing over. Tell you what, though--I'm a huge believer in 69 for a lot of reasons, one them being that it tends to get wild and break down all the rules, hers and mine. (Yes, I get swallowed, sucked dry and licked clean.) I've read posts from guys on this site saying they don't like 69 because they can't concentrate on their own pleasure. So freaking what? If that's all a guy is after, that's what masturbation is for--it's all about him. Real sex, to me, is about shared pleasure, and the magic of it is that sharing makes my pleasure more intense for me. All these things are personal, and I never urge anyone to do anything they don't want to do. But I do wonder if she's reluctant to do you because you're reluctant to do her. Just asking.