I am bothered

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That there's allot of girls around 14 and as young as 12, that will have sex with people who's in their 30s.I can understand allot of girls at young age wanting someone 2-3 years older then them, because, face it, not many guys before 16 or 17 are very muscular, or have much below.All illegalness aside, 30 is really pushing it, and is umm sick imo. In both that a 30 year old would do it with someone that young and vice versa =/

Im not to sure that alot of 14 year olds would have sex with 30 year old men.

It might be that way in the area you live.

Nah it's not that way in my area, I was hanging with a bunch of chicks from other area's there were 4 they were from Indiana, ohio, floria, and I think oregon.Edit: actually it might be, but I don't know anyone from my area that did.

When I was 12 I was not attracted to 16-17 year old guys because of their penis size. That was the last thing on my mind. Girls (i've read some stuff that back this up) mentally develop faster than boys, because they generally hit puberty sooner. Not all 12 year old girls are like the ones you may have heard about. Most of the one's I know (or knew) were like me.

That was when you were 12 though.

And no they don't mentally develop faster. they physically. at least supposedly, I was a freak and started maturing when I was 8. I was all hairy and "developed" by like 10, and I had a pretty good sized beard at 13.

I'm such a freak, it probably means I'll die at like 20 due to my weird aging.

I work at a child's after school program with kids as young as 6 years old and I'm not surprised why. It's sad because their generation knows more now at their age than I did at their age. And they lose their innocence so quickly. And then you get to the Junior High Schools and forget it. They might as well be 18 or 19. It's disturbing actually. And they fall so easily for whatever is said to them in flattery. Only to get them in bed. I usually see girls going for older guys... much much older guys. I find though that most of the times they trick the men into thinking they're much older and then when things get bad he's the one getting the punishment even though he didn't know. That's messed up.

Quote:And no they don't mentally develop faster.Actually, we do. But not all girls will behave the same. When I was a preteen, sex was the last thing on my mind. My best guess is it all depends how we were raised and the enviroment we grow up in.

Thinking about sex doesn't mean you've mentally developed faster.

That's not really what i'm saying. I'm not saying that girls are necessarily so far ahead of boys that they are thinking about sex. I'm saying that it is enough for them to feel like they are more mature than boys their own age, so they have a tendency to be attracted to boys who are older because their level of maturity is closer to their's. Generally they aren't looking for sex. They are just looking for people they feel they can relate to. Remember this is all generalized information....I also used "12" as the age in my post because you said "girls around 14 and as young as 12".Sorry I should also mention that in my argument I am placing much more emphasis on overall maturity rather than specifically sexual maturity. I personally think the reason so many young girls are having sex these days is because of the media and peer-pressure...

Sorry, I wasn't clear. I didn't mean that a lack of interest in sex meant you're more mentally developed. That was just me putting in my experience. I was one of those girls who thought sex was completely overrated and had no interest in it.But I do meant that girls do mentally develop a sense of maturity sooner than boys. Like I said, not all girls behave the same.

Maturing as early as I did sucks, I was too mature and intelligent and shit for people my age because they couldn't understand me or didn't wanna go deep into stuff.But nobody older wanted to talk because I was a kid =/

So you found, FallenLight, that your mental development matched your physical development?I have heard of an alternate problem for early developers, that they can look older than they are and be treated as older because of it, when mentally they are not older.

Correct, I've developed past my age, in both ways, but due to my age/development I wasn't accepted by either.Probably because I'm a dude. I've noticed even guys that aren't trying to get laid will treat an early developed girl more maturely I guess you'd say, then they would a guy.