Help me

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Well I have been raised in a very christian family whom they all think homosexuality is bad and I have been raised to believe that. But for the past few months I have stopped being aroused by women and now its men. Its very stessful and I need some help. What I would need help on is like websites that helps teens get through this or advice. Please help

how old are you rex?sexual orientation is a part of development,dont let it stress you out.take things day by day,and enjoy your life for what it is,no matter what it is.

I'm 14. But if my parents find out I'm homosexual they would shun me act like I dont even exist. How am I to deal with it well how should I tell them

You're only 14. You're still too young to really "Label" yourself. I wouldn't tell anyone anything untill you are really really sure.

Yeah you're still young. Give it a few more years. If you're worried about what your parents think then just try hard not to be homosexual. Like I said you're still young, and it will prolly pass in a few years. Just try to focus on women. You should be ok.Good luck with whatever happens...

No offence, Powerlifter, but you make it sound like being homosexual is something people can choose to be, and that it's a bad thing. Neither is true.Now, my advice would be not to tell your parents anything. It's very possible that you can go through transitions in sexual orientation when you're maturing (I know I did) and they're not always permanent. Maybe you'll be gay, maybe you'll be straight. Maybe you'll be bi. 14 years of age is just too early to tell, in my opinion. I'm sure in time you'll know, but 'forcing' yourself to be one way or another is not the way to figure it out. Doing things like that can cause psychological damage no matter how you turn out to be! I mean, what would be worse, having to tell your parents, or having to tell your spouse and children? And besides, human sexuality cannot be classified into those three common labels, it's more of a gradient between the two extremes, and I don't think anyone is 100% on either side. So, to put it in a nutshell, don't worry about it just yet, and most importantly of all, don't tell your parents! 'Cause it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong if they still shun you for it.

none taken. i wont comment either way on if i think it's right or wrong becuase i dont want to start an argument.you said you dont think no one is 100% either way. i can gaurantee you that I'm 100% straight

Power, ever watched porn with a straight couple in it?(yes, I am going somewhere with this)

If you goin somewhere, of course I have... why?

Ok, say you're watching one with the perfect girl in it, turns you on in every way...Would you prefer the guy to be young, muscular, etc, or old, fat, flabby, etc?If you were 100% straight it wouldn't matter.

lol it doesnt matter. That just furthers my point. i rarely pay attention the guy.

I'm officially shocked, then.

LOL, I mean why would you have a preference about the guy??? Most of the pornos are with average guys anyway. I very rarely see an older guy in one, but if an old guy is tapin some hot chick, more power to him. Wouldnt bother me.

Most guys would... though many won't admit it in person cause they don't want to seem 'gay' in front of their buddies, but there's no reason to worry about that on this forum, far as I've seen.

dont focus on girls rex,focus on whoever you feel attracted to.it's you who in a few years time will be leading your own life,and making your own choices.do what pleases you the most.be it focus on guys,girls,or both.just dont worry about it.your parents dont have to know,if my parents knew half the things i've done they'd scream."confession" is optional,dont feel compelled to make so much as a peep.take it easy dude